Thread: Cant call out my DG...

I've tried to hard to call out my DG but I just cant...

I feel as if I've already met her. I say "her" because theres this one girl who follows me around and whenever I notice her I wake up a few seconds later. She gives me this look as if shes always watching me. I havent talked to her or anything and she just shows up where ever I am. All I've done so far is see her.

I really hope she's my DG. But if shes not I need help calling out my own DG. I think I need better control. Are there any methods out there that will help me get better dream control?

that would be kinda scary , that one person always there watching you

Finally!!!!! I am amazed that on this sight no one seems to talk about this stuff! I have had a long strange realationship with a few dream guides, and it has propelled me faster than I could ever have done alone. <<I have been lucid dreaming 22 years>> It is scary at first very very scary. That will go away. First) Behave yourself,,, she is watching you, not sure yet if you are worth her effort. Spend some time being a good student. Work on a skill or focus on a sense. You will feel her watch you. She may test you, test if you over react to frustration. Second) Learn to speak in your dream. Speak a few words well and clear. Hear yourself speak. Work on it like a skill. This also counts as showing you are a good student. Third) Sit calmly. Do not turn your head trying to see her. Ask for her help out loud. Let her approach you. This may take a few times, maybe this whole thing could take a year or more in real life.
It is worth the effort if you become adopted by her she will advance your skills so fast you will be overwhelmed. Good Luck! I am so thrilled to finally hear someone who is interested in this.

Sivason when I read your post I got very excited! I dont know why but I did! I just cant wait to meet her and talk to her! Hopefully I'll have a lucid dream tonight and I'll do my best to impress her!

Hmm I guess I am the outkast here haha

My dreamguide seems to be actively evading me. She (I'm pretty sure it's a she) can apparently transform, and I've only been able to have a stable conversation with her once. Whenever I try to find my dreamguide everything goes really bizarre, and I've gone through a lot of different environments looking for her.

Originally Posted by slayer

I've tried to hard to call out my DG but I just cant...

I feel as if I've already met her. I say "her" because theres this one girl who follows me around and whenever I notice her I wake up a few seconds later. She gives me this look as if shes always watching me. I havent talked to her or anything and she just shows up where ever I am. All I've done so far is see her.

I really hope she's my DG. But if shes not I need help calling out my own DG. I think I need better control. Are there any methods out there that will help me get better dream control?

I have been having a similar thing for a while now, I posted here about when i first joined but sadly got no answers. I dont know if it is the same kind of thing but it appears to be. http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...ad.php?t=42193

The feeling I know this person is overwhelming and I just cant seem to get through to him. The couple of times I have tried havent been successful and it is really frustrating

sivason, that was brilliant advice and something Im definitely going to try, thanks for that


thanks to Erin for the link too, as soon as I get time Im gonna have a proper look at it

I've had confusing experiences looking for my dreamguide. He/she seems to be a black panther, but I haven't really gotten the chance to talk properly.

I havent met mine yet but if you choose a dream character and tell them there your dream guide.