Thread: SEX in dreams???

Yeah same here, this morning, I had a crazy ass lucid dream where I was having sex with a female vampire chick. She was on top and it was insane. I cant believe how long I went at it without waking up; I even had time to notice that her eyes were gray. Im definitely going for a repeat tonight.

It does seem like they go way quick

I rarely have sexual dreams, but there's been a couple times where I orgasm in it, or at least I think I do. I wake up at the tail end of it and am confused if it was real or not. I know it's nothing I did physically because I never move while asleep.

Originally Posted by オースチン

Very interesting topic,
are you able to perceive actually feeling something while having a lucid sex dream?

I'd imagine the dream experience is a far cry from reality. But feel free to correct me, as I've never tried this.

I actually felt stuff. Not as vividly as in reality, but I could feel the buildup all the same.

Originally Posted by Wolfsbane

I actually felt stuff. Not as vividly as in reality, but I could feel the buildup all the same.

That's very cool. The brain is such an interesting thing.

I actually felt stuff. Not as vividly as in reality, but I could feel the buildup all the same.

For most people it's more vivid than reality, maybe you should practice more?

The thing to remember with dream sex is that it basically is masturbation. And because dreams form around what we think just think sexy.

Originally Posted by josh2010

what if the problem is that there is simply no one to have sex with and not that they're ugly? do you just imagine a naked women bending over in front of you or what?

I'm sensation focused in my sex dreams. Sometimes I just jill off in my dreams when no one suitable is around and it feels amazing. Because it is all in my head the actions in the dream aren't that important to me. Sometimes just thinking about stimulation is enough, without any DC or anything.

If a hot DC is important, imagine the hottest DC you can. Think about how they will feel, etc. They may just appear or they may walk up to you. If this doesn't work just imagining may be enough.

Originally Posted by anonymous

For most people it's more vivid than reality, maybe you should practice more?

lol. During my sex dreams, I'm usually the one in charge so I'm not actually getting anything out of it. When I orgasm, all I have to do is think about it. Half of the time I'm not even doing anything sexual. It's like my mind wants to create a sex scene, but it still wants to keep everything unrealistic and dreamlike. For example, blacking out during it and seeing only numbers.

Originally Posted by Wolfsbane

lol. During my sex dreams, I'm usually the one in charge so I'm not actually getting anything out of it. When I orgasm, all I have to do is think about it. Half of the time I'm not even doing anything sexual. It's like my mind wants to create a sex scene, but it still wants to keep everything unrealistic and dreamlike. For example, blacking out during it and seeing only numbers.

because nothing's sexier than numbers, right?

Haha, yeah. It's more like the whole thing was so intense that I blacked out. This is what I meant by numbers...

Originally Posted by Wolfsbane

Haha, yeah. It's more like the whole thing was so intense that I blacked out. This is what I meant by numbers...

ooooooh, now that's just cool

Well Wolfsbane, you've just given me a new dream task - try to change my perception to see everything in numbers! Thanks much

Glad I could help.
That's a really good idea. Maybe it should be a monthly task.

Yeah, I think that would be a great monthly task, though probably an advanced one, since I imagine it'll be pretty hard to accomplish fully. I think I'll start with one object and work my way up from there.

LDer 1: I just pulled off a Neo in my dreams.

LDer 2: No way, what'd you do?

LDer 1: I flew, I stopped bullets, and I had sex with Trinity.

LDer 2: Hmm, that's cool, I pulled a Neo also, but it's probably not what you think.

LDer 1: *scoffs* oh yeah? what'd do you, hmm??

LDer 2: I saw shit in numbers, yoooo

LDer 1: *Jaw drops*

yes it is possible to have an orgasm from a sex dream. I'm going to try not and get too graphic but yea, when you find a dream character that you are attractive to get nude and get them nude, you know what comes next. I had a wet lucid dream a few days ago.

Here's an article with some very useful tips for exploring sex in lucid dreams. One great point they give is that you should never treat the DC like they're just a lifeless image, even if that's what you actually believe, the experience will be 1000x more fulfilling if you pretend they're a real person and have a degree of respect for them.

i dont discourage it, but remember it will take time to master. For me when i first had a LD, i tried to have sex and had an orgasm and woke from the excitement. last ld though i got a short BJ and was able to keep myself from waking. It is strange, dream orgasms. Just self control is the main thing, you cant just fund a girl and do her. also i advise against the not jacking off or having sex, because this increases the chance that it will be a "wet dream" which is different than a Ld although you can become lucid in it, you dont really have control and your hormones take away self discipline.

In my normal dreams I have had sex several times and every time I have a sex dream I can have multiple orgasms in one sitting. Not possible for most guys in real life, but in my dreams it was. The feeling of it in my dreams was the exact same as in real life and I could have a full orgasm multiple times. Pretty amazing stuff, and I believe it would be more amazing if I was lucid. Then I could make her do whatever I wanted

Originally Posted by RunflaCruiser

I would recommend sex dreams, as well as anything else your heart desires. We are all "civilized" animals - believe it or NOT.

If you see a hot chic (or dude) you can do whatever you want.

If all them sick rapists and child molesters had lucid dreams maybe there would be less crime...because the real world is what counts.

Don't forget its all just in your mind!

yea it's better for people who can't get any to let lose their fantasy in a lucid dream then in the real world

I was talking with Dog, and she made an interesting point. If you had a shared sex dream would you still be a virgin? I guess technically not since you aren't physically having sex. Your opinions?

Originally Posted by josh2010

is it possible to attain orgasm while dreaming?

Two words: Wet Dream

Originally Posted by TheLucid

Two words: Wet Dream

Not always...
I've trained myself to have dry orgasms in reality, and it appears to carry over to the dream world. Amazing experience. No lucid sex, though.

one time i was banging this chick in a dream and i woke up and it still felt like a had this chicks boob in my hand haha

Yeah! it is very possible to have sexual dreams, but first learn some basics about dreamcontrol, yea you can have orgasms, and yes, in y opinion LD sex is 10 time more intense than masturbating. Anyway staying asleep after the first orgasm not that dificult to archive,but having more than one consecutive orgasms is dificult to archive... and you will probably get sperm in your pants next day.. better prepare something for that the night before...