What exactly are you asking? How to stop it? |
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Alright, it's a long, long story. I'll try to keep it as short as I can. I used to ask this on Yahoo Answers, gave up and searched the internet for a better site, came across this thought I would give it a shot. Here goes... |
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What exactly are you asking? How to stop it? |
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yes, and why I'm having it |
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Try posting it in the Help! section, I think you'll generate more helpful replies regarding your abusive father there: http://www.dreamviews.com/f38/ |
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Last edited by Carrot; 07-04-2012 at 11:39 PM.
Okay thanks |
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I think you having these dreams, because that's how you feel in waking life. You are affraid, that your father will somehow be responsible for separating you from your girlfriend. Wheather it be directly, you father doing something, or you doing something. You have probably heard about "cycle of abuse" - abused kids may be abusive themselfs later in their lives. You may be worried about this. Possibly a councelor may be able to help you sort it out. There should be some free help available in school you attending. Good luck to you. |
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While I completely agree with what gab has said, I don't think it's necessarily specific to your girlfriend. What I love (though in the case, would hate) about dreams is that they have the ability to convey things happening in our mind that we may not even be aware of. For this reason, I believe not only might you be worrying about something happening between your father and your girlfriend, you may also be worried about it affecting other aspects of your life - i.e. your girlfriend might represent some other aspect(s) of your life. This is because obviously you can't really have a dream about your father 'abusing' everything you care about (such as your career, for example), so your mind needs a way of condensing into a symbol. |
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GOALS - GLORY FOR TEAM INSTINCT
DILD [ ] /// Chain a Lucid Dream [ ] /// Stabilise [ ] /// Ask someone what the time is [ ]
Turn on a computer and jump into it [ ] /// Fly out the Earth's atmosphere [ ] /// Telekinesis [ ] /// Jump through door [ ]
Listen to my favourite record [ ] /// Jump down two flights of steps without breaking the old kneecaps [ ] /// Smoke a fatty [ ]
MoSh, you are so right. Of course, the "girlfriend" in dreams may represent anything you care for in your life, be it your loved ones or your future life itself. |
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My thought was pretty much exactly what Gab and Mosh said. But I'd say it might not only relate to the cycle of abuse as far as being afraid you might become abusive like your dad - but also that you're afraid you might be damaged in ways that can prevent you from having good relationships in general. |
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Agreed. |
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GOALS - GLORY FOR TEAM INSTINCT
DILD [ ] /// Chain a Lucid Dream [ ] /// Stabilise [ ] /// Ask someone what the time is [ ]
Turn on a computer and jump into it [ ] /// Fly out the Earth's atmosphere [ ] /// Telekinesis [ ] /// Jump through door [ ]
Listen to my favourite record [ ] /// Jump down two flights of steps without breaking the old kneecaps [ ] /// Smoke a fatty [ ]
Derrick, I think you have already won half the battle by realizing something is wrong and by wanting to do something about it. I'm sure you'll be able to sort it out, as hard and painful as it may be. |
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Thanks guys, very enlightening. I am actually hoping to become a clinical psychologist believe it or not haha. One of my friends knows a good therapist I think I might try out. |
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Glad to help, let us know if the situation gets any better (or any worse, for that matter). |
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GOALS - GLORY FOR TEAM INSTINCT
DILD [ ] /// Chain a Lucid Dream [ ] /// Stabilise [ ] /// Ask someone what the time is [ ]
Turn on a computer and jump into it [ ] /// Fly out the Earth's atmosphere [ ] /// Telekinesis [ ] /// Jump through door [ ]
Listen to my favourite record [ ] /// Jump down two flights of steps without breaking the old kneecaps [ ] /// Smoke a fatty [ ]
Hey, just thought I would come back and say that the issue has definitely cleared up, been having an occasional occurrance but I try to focus on reality, I also found that there's this one song that brings me back to earth, kind of odd, but "Because of You" by Ne-Yo does the trick ha, anyway, thanks a lot, life is much more relaxing without it, glad I found this site |
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