Sometimes we have "obvious" dreams. If we are unhappily in love we may dream the person we love, is in love with us, or rejects us -- fulfill our dream or repeat our bitter experience; or if we have problem with money we will dream that we have lots of money, or that we cannot do this or that because we have no money; or if we were abused by someone in our childhood, we may dream that we are abused by that person when we are grown ups. Or if we are afraid of death and very troubled with the fact that everyone will die and so forth, then this dilemma will turn up in our dream.
One could call these "obvious" dreams -- it feels obvious why we have them, and often one can dismiss them because they do not add anything we didn't know. But if one would like to try to interpret these dreams, one should keep an eye out for that which is not obvious in the dream -- because that is what the dream adds, and there is almost always something unexpected in these dreams.
For instance, if I'm in love with somebody who isn't in love with me I dream that we are happily together -- an obvious fantasy. But what I don't think about, is that the setting for the dream is my childhood home, where the object for my love has never been. So that adds something to the dream, and I can learn something about my longing for this person by pulling that thread: Why in my childhood home? -- Or the person who abused me when I was a child is violent and threatening in my dream, well that's obvious. But on closer inspection we notice that he is threatening the dreamer with a butter knife, which is a totally harmless tool. That is not obvious, that is something the dream adds which symbolize something I was not aware of. So if I want to understand this dream, the butter knife is the key.
One should always note that which is unexpected, out of the ordinary, or to put it in another way: Out of the reach of the consciousness. That is what the dream, a spontaneous reaction from the unconsciousness, adds.
So in this dream, if you want to interpret it, you need to keep an eye out for that which is not obvious, and that might be your cousin. Who is she, what is your relation to you, what does she symbolize, and why is she found below -- and why did she make you cry even more, and why did you run away? That scene is the key to the dream, the cousin is a symbol for something you are unaware of in an otherwise conscious setting.
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