Thread: Can't decipher a weird dream. Need help.

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When you wear formal attire in dreams it means that you want to be recognized and acknowledged for your abilities and skills. You don't want to go unnoticed. An opera house usually represents your quest for the grander things in life. The dream may also be trying to tell you that you are being overly dramatic in some waking situation. To dream that you are at a bar suggests your desire to escape from the stresses of your daily life and retreat into a light-hearted environment where pleasure abounds. You could be seeking acceptance in some aspect of your daily life. The dream may also be a pun on being "barred" from some place or something. You are feeling excluded or held back by circumstances beyond your control.
To see or be in an amusement park indicates that you need to set some time for more relaxation and enjoyment in your life. The rides, booths and elements in the amusement park are an expression of some aspect of yourself or some area in your life. A Ferris wheel specifically suggests that you are going around in circles. You are headed nowhere. Life is full of ups and downs. Having coffins for seats could mean that you are going through a period of depression. You are feeling confined, restricted and lacking personal freedom. There may be a dead or decaying situation or issue in your life that you need to address. It is time to end this situation.
The woman could be a physical representation of your inner temptation and guilt. The red color of her dress matches this as the color red means intense passion, aggression, power, courage, impulsiveness, shame, rejection, sexual impulses and urges. The color red has deep spiritual and emotional connotations. Consider your conversation with her being you talking directly to some or all of these inner desires.
To see your girlfriend represents your waking feelings and relationship with her. Her altered appearance represents things. Blonde hair means that you need to enjoy your life with her and live it up more often. If you notice someone else's eyes in your dream, then it indicates an emotional or intimate connection with that person. It also signifies a mutual understanding. Seeing as how she's your girlfriend, this makes sense. The color blue in her eyes standing out to you means something. Blue represents truth, wisdom, heaven, eternity, devotion, tranquility, loyalty and openness. The presence of this color in your dream may symbolize your optimism of the future. You have clarity of mind with her. Alternatively, the color blue may also be a metaphor for "being blue" and feeling sad when it comes to her. To dream that something or someone is thinner represents a lacking of strength and integrity. You feel that you are unable to hold your own or stand up for yourself. However, this also indicates flexibility and agility. You are able to adapt to any situation with her. Lips in dreams signify sensuality, sex, love, and romance, especially if they were pursed. Their color being red enhances this, and shows just how deeply you feel these things about her. Betrayal being such an impacting feeling when seeing her shows your suspicions about a particular person, relationship or situation. This feeling often occurs when you are having feelings of insecurity and are faced with major commitments in your life at the same time.
To dream that you are smoking signifies your need for a break from things. It may also point to issues of dependency. You smoke directly after seeing your girlfriend. You are typically against smoking that kind of cigarette, showing that you need to analyze aspects of your waking life and what you are doing that may adversely be affecting you.
To dream of coming in contact with a mafia person is a representation of your inner turmoil, much like the female was a representation. Your turmoil is lighting your cigarette, this may show that it's your inner turmoil that may be what you need to analyze in your life. The color gold means many things, but the negative aspects seem to be what it represents this time, those aspects being, greed, corruption, and temptation. Your inner turmoil is causing these things in you.
Doctors represent a need for emotional and spiritual healing, a plumber represents that there is some emotional issue that you need to deal with instead of letting it clog up within you, and a soldier means that you are preparing yourself to do battle over an issue. You feel the need to defend your beliefs, values and opinions. These feelings are telling you that you have cancer. Cancer in a dream represents the areas in your life which are bothering you, disturbing you, and hurting you in some emotional way. An emotional issue is eating away at you. Them telling you this shows that your subconscious wants and is preparing you to deal with any issue you are having, and not to hold on to these issues.

I got these meanings from real dream interpreting guides. All these different symbols meanings match up quite perfectly. I hope this has helped you.