Hey community!
I'm a guy in my 20s and wanted some help interpreting what my dreams are trying to say to me. These dreams used to happen fairly often in my younger years, but as I fell in love with a girl, went to college, moved into a house together, they just kind of stopped. They've been coming back recently and I'm trying to understand why. Usually, in these dreams I'm the person I want to strive to be. I'm usually in school or some other outing and am very popular and friendly with all the people guys and girls. I don't want to be sexual or anything with girls and am just in this be positive/have fun no matter what you're doing mood. It's awesome and I feel great, even after I wake up until after a little while I go back to my normal anxious, stressed out, tired self. It's a good feeling being popular and accepted and just trying to have a good time. I love having these dreams.
Sometimes I also have this dream where I'm hanging out and see this girl and we do some sort of adventure together and just connect. There's this spark between us and butterfly feelings and something happens that comes in between us and I get rejected and am upset over it, but there's this feeling that I know we'll be together in the end. Sort of like a love story. Like for example the most recent one was that I was at my girlfriends family's house (she wasn't there and actually didn't even really exist in my dream), and my girlfriends cousin was there. We had to go do something and solved a mystery and made a really good team. We were happy and proud of ourselves and also had this deep connection. It was clear we liked liked each other. Then she was at her house and something happened and we couldn't be together, and I had to leave without her and we were both upset. Me more so because it was like she wasn't giving me a chance, but there was still this feeling we'd end up together in the end.
Now I know it's weird I'm dreaming about my GFs cousin, but when I woke up I didn't have any feelings for the cousin. It seemed like I was just using her as an outlet in my dream.
I'm so confused about what my dreams are saying to me. I do have anxiety and work from home and am trying to work on issues I have. It seems like when I get my head cleared I can have these sort of dreams, just don't know what they mean. Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks guys!
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