Although in order to provide a more accurate interpretation it would usually be best to have some general background information about you (and a description of events just before this upsetting dream), a few ideas can be tried out to see if they might fit your personal circumstances in some way.
Just to start off by mentioning that the language of dreams is one based on analogies and metaphors which of course can be difficult to understand.
Also, dreams are the broad equivalent to those processes which keep our physical bodies in an equilibrium.
For example, automatic adjustments are continually made to keep one’s temperature, blood sugar level, water content etc. etc. at appropriate levels.
In an equivalent way, dreams try to maintain an overall psychological balance which will allow for the gradual all-round self-development of the dreamer.
So with your vivid dream, it’s possible that a certain way of acting or thinking etc. has perhaps been building up over a period of time and has reached a kind of climax when this outlook or attitude should be looked at more carefully.
Or perhaps a recent unusual incident somehow highlighted such an underlying problem which your upsetting dream is trying to urge you to examine more fully.
Generally speaking, the apartment symbolizes your overall conscious personality at this time while your furniture and other items represent things such as various accomplishments, beliefs and ways of orientating yourself etc.
Also, the appearance of an apartment or house partly involves how we present ourselves to others and how we wish to be perceived by them.
A bedroom is of course where we sleep and on analogy, being in your bedroom in the dream and hiding under the bed probably suggests that you might wish to remain “asleep” and “unaware” of various matters related to yourself and others in general.
So maybe the dream is saying that if an attitude continues which generally seeks to “keep you unconscious”, then unpleasant consequences could potentially occur, e.g. the men and woman arrive to steal all of your belongings as they had planned to do.
When such an event happens in outer life, we feel that as a person, we have been violated; that is, our conscious identity and “who we really are” hasn’t been respected.
The basic all-round and real “you” as a woman is probably represented by the old chest that was handed down from your great grandma who sadly recently died.
Unfortunately, the men who take the furniture could possibly symbolize a barely conscious stream of self-hurtful put-downs in the form of thoughts and opinions such as “How you ever got a husband is a mystery because you’re so dumb” etc. etc.
Of course, such thoughts would “rob you” of feelings of accomplishment and self-esteem in a gradual way over time, potentially leading to a feeling of “emptiness”, e.g. the apartment is essentially totally cleared out by the men.
The gang-leader is a woman who represents a part of your psyche which apparently could leave you “bereft” overall if not kept a close eye on.
You could try focusing on her image in the dream and see what memories, thoughts and feelings spontaneously come to mind. Then by sifting through what emerges, hopefully a clue will appear as to what attitude, habit or viewpoint etc. she symbolizes so that any appropriate changes in your overall approach to what she represents can gradually be made over time.
Probably if an improvement can be made, this part of your psyche could apparently expand outward into a healthier and less destructive attitude (e.g. she lets you keep your great grandma’s chest) so that you’ll never have to feel terrified, “robbed” and bereft in the future.
The fact that no one helps you even though they know you’re being robbed might symbolize the idea that it’s up to you alone to change the conditions that allow for such a “robbery” of almost all of your “vital belongings”, as it were, to ever happen.
You can also try gathering your memories etc. in connection with the 80 inch television that’s left on the wall, but generally speaking, it looks like it could possibly represent an over-reliance on certain collective ideals and beliefs etc. as based on the analogy that television content is mostly created by powerful organizations whose only criterion for success is usually “pleasing the masses” and obtaining “money” as opposed to fostering individual psychological growth among the population overall.
The woman then gave you a hug, told you that you needed to wash your hair and left.
Based on some analogies that would take too long to describe, hair usually symbolizes the free flow of energizing and potentially transforming thoughts, intuitions and fantasies etc.
The woman implies your hair is “dirty”, perhaps a clue that her unredeemed self as a psychic figure doesn’t like certain darker themes and ideas etc. as connected to life in general and therefore, keeps you from exploring them by urging you to “keep things clean” at all times.
The dream might be briefly hinting at how to approach any such problem by setting the next scene in your grandparents’ house.
That is, perhaps you might tend to be too grounded in various basic, well-established and workable beliefs developed during your upbringing which of course are quite valuable, but which might be hindering too much the exploration of certain more “dangerous” intuitions and goals etc. of your own, e.g. the strange man kisses you.
You feel guilty because you’re married and run away, ending up on a mountain which has a somewhat gigantic water-related amusement ride.
A mountain in dreams often symbolizes the potential overall development of a person’s inborn legacy of abilities and talents etc. which was also probably symbolized by your great grandma’s chest.
The man who kissed you is on the ride behind you while your best friend Jen is with you.
This probably represents the idea that you can’t get away from the inner man who may come up with startling ideas and thoughts etc. about how to go about things etc.
Maybe this includes the idea of needing to take in and enjoy life for yourself (the beautiful mountain scenery) and not just needing to please others too much (e.g. the phone could just distract you from experiencing things directly for your own good).
Perhaps your fear of the man could get out of hand and he could “die” (i.e. become totally unconscious) from the “disease” of being shut out of your awareness too often.
The idea could be that if you did manage to shut out various ideas and impulses etc. that are natural and normal, emotions could tend to build up and “drown” you (e.g. the partying crowd).
Your best friend might have a similar outlook to your own which, if it became too strong, might lead gradually to increasing unconsciousness overall (e.g. you meet up with her again and it gets dark).
Also, because of the colour blue, the fascinating and powerful electric blue waves of the ocean might symbolize the intellect and certain fixed opinions and beliefs that, while beautiful, are also dangerous.
The danger might be hinted at by the fact that the three crosses are on the ocean and not on “solid ground”.
This could mean that certain beliefs etc. might tend to be “supported by” only strong stormy emotions (e.g. the roiling ocean) which might unfortunately betray some underlying doubts and fears instead (i.e. about how the drunken chanting people, i.e. annoying thoughts and ideas etc., could potentially upset various fixed beliefs because they’re “outcasts” and say “blasphemous” things).
Anyway as mentioned, without knowing anything much about you, this way of looking at your upsetting dream might not fit your personal circumstances very well, but I hope these ideas can be helpful in some way.
Please feel free to ask any questions or to make any comments about this particular way of looking at your dream.
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