I eloped with a girl i fell in love very deeply

[dev2608]

I saw myself with a backpack and i went into a factory.. Every body working there wore kind of school dress. Most of them were girls as compared to boys i would say 80% to 20% ratio. I saw a girl there & it was love at first sight. In my dream she was the most beautiful girl i had ever seen in my life. I was inspecting the place & while inspecting i always had my eye at the girl indirectly. she also did the same while working. I also saw that her friend who was next to her also keeping an eye on me and her to see what is going on between us. After inspection i left but i kept thinking about that girl and i felt that i could not live a life without her being a part of my life. It was very intense feeling. I decided to come back next day on the pretext of haven't done full audit of place and all the time i has my eyes on her and felt i should go and hug her tightly and never to let her go. After i left i was attracted to come back again. So i went back again next day but this time i hid myself and kept looking at the girl while hiding. Her girlfriend caught me during their Lunchtime and said that her friend loves me very deeply and want to be with me. I told her girlfriend that i was already married but my relationship with my wife was just ok and although i was deeply in love with her friend i was also hesitant to ask/propose her since she was very young and half my age (She looked like 20-21). So the girlfriend went back and told her about me and after talking to her came back to me and told me she was positive to spend her life with me as she also cannot live without me. The girlfriend told me to come back next day fully prepared to run away with the girl and she will help us next day as she wanted her to have a better life. I came back next day fully prepared and managed to elope with my true love disguising both of us as visitors with the help of her friend. I have written what i could remember and wrote on paper when i woke up. I also saw a big tree with a bird sitting on it but i cannot remember at which stage of dream i saw it. Also when i woke up i had a beautiful feeling of love. In my real life i am married and have a kid but in the dream i didn't had the kid. Can the experts please help me decipher my dream. Many Thanks

[DorianMask]

So in my personal philosophy I believe no one can tell you the meaning of a dream but the dreamer themselves. As dreams are usually allegorical and personally related to our own associations. I can only tell you what the dream would mean to me if I had it, if that resonates with you, great. Dreaming of other women while in a committed relationship is not uncommon, especially if the connection to the other woman feels stronger than the one you have in waking life. The anima can be a strong subconscious archetype for men who actively deny their feminine side. I am picking up a sense of loss of opportunity in youthfulness, or rather, a feeling of regrettable decisions made in waking life. Having more females than males present indicates a sense of desire for a stronger connection to the feminine archetype. In my ideology I believe most every character present in a dream is an extension of self, so the feminine friend leading/assisting the joining of a female with a male can be seen as synergy or the desire to become whole. The need for sneakiness or avoiding authority to me signals a feeling of desiring a lifestyle which is not locally socially supported. Like desiring the pursuit of things I know my friends or peers would not approve of. A big bird in a tree makes me think of a bird of prey, or a predatory mindset high up on a shelf overlooking my conscience decisions. Hope this helps, cheers fellow dreamer!

[dev2608]

Thanks @DorianMask for analyzing my dream. Although i have a feeling of regrettable decisions regarding my personal life those feelings have faded over time and i have stopped giving too much importance about the past. For some reason it has been in my mind that in my previous life i must have been a woman as i am a Virgo and my rapport with women is better than men. So your observations are somehow to the point. This dream came out of nowhere when i am happy with my waking life and that feeling of love in the dream were very very very intense, I don't know what do the characters and the situation signify so i posted the thread. At the moment i am jobless and looking for job so not sure if this dream has some relation to job hunting and my interest in spirituality has increased in last few months to know why am i here in this world and so i am reading books to know about afterlife, reincarnations, laws of God etc. So i thought there might be some messages from above which i cannot decode and this forum can provide me some answers.