Originally Posted by Torriatte
You used my quote saying: "Sorry....I can be tolerant without embracing it."
(you said) I also thought this quote was funny since it completely contradicts itself. If you don't embrace it, you aren't tolerant of it. You can't tolerate gay rights and fight to revoke those rights at the same time. By definition you are intolerant.
My response: Um, I'm not in a position to deny ANYONE ANYTHING, especially rights. Rights are not given out by me....are they. Again, telling me what I can and can't be thinking? I thought I taught you better than that.
Of COURSE I can be tolerant and still not embrace it!
What on Earth are you talking about? Are you not fighting against gay rights in this moment? It doesn't matter that you don't insult them. Acting to repress their rights, whether you have the power to do so or not, is intolerant.
(Did you really just write this entire post about that single quote? Why do you keep ignoring my points?)
Originally Posted by Torriatte
Tolerance is....... Not calling them names, not making faces when you see them together, going out of your way to NOT insult them, treating them just like you would anyone else, trying to allow civil unions to make them feel more normalized with rights.
Embracing is totally different. I will never EMBRACE the idea of two dudes having sex. No matter what you or anyone else ever says...I find that idea disturbing and just plain WRONG. I can't embrace what I find morally and physically disgusting. Rights are one thing. Everyone should have the same rights but not SPECIAL rights just because you're gay. How would you dole out those "special rights" for gays? Would you inspect their butts...to make sure there's some stretch marks? OK PAL...you pass the test!! You can have a civil union and all the rights that go with it! NEXT!!"
This is such a convaluted take on the concept of tolerance. You find the homosexual lifestyle "disturbing" and "morally and physically disgusting," yet according to you, tolerance is the mere act of refraining from name calling and face making and "trying to make them feel normalized" (as if they aren't normal people?) Do you automatically feel the impulse to do such things? If I were a homosexual, I would be extremely offended by what you just said. So much for respecting their feelings, huh?
Sure, not calling names and not making faces are a part of tolerance, but that is far from the complete picture and the part you are missing is the most important part. Tolerance is allowing someone who is different than you to live their life as they want, free from ridicule, while affording them the same rights as you afford yourself. As you can see, this is where your idea of tolerance fails to meet the standard. If you don't think homosexuals should have the same rights as you, by what stretch of the imaginiation are you fully tolerating their existence?
I believe that good examples of INTOLERANCE is when gay people push their lifestyle in my face and demand that I "embrace it".
Or, maybe when the lesbians stormed the church and called the worshipers "homophobes" just because they were worshiping God in their own church.
Perhaps I should just spell this out for you........ Tolerance must go both ways. It's not just about tolerating Gays...it's about Gays tolerating people who might find their behavior objectionable. Perhaps that is something THEY should embrace.....the notion that not everyone LIKES to be looking at that shit....or even being exposed to it, or having your kids exposed to it in 1'st grade.
Tolerance is a dual edged sword.
You can't get all mad at people for having their own values and beliefs.....that don't coincide with yours.
THAT is intolerant too.
So it is intolerant to oppose a group who actively fights to limit your rights? Homosexuality poses no threat to your way of life, yet you want to limit their rights. Your way of life though, poses a significant threat to homosexual life. Is it not ethical to fight for human rights? Homosexuals aren't protesting the fact that people find their lifestyle disgusting. Do you really think that? Honestly? They are protesting because people like you don't think they should be allowed to get married and don't think they should have the right to be open about their sexuality in the military. You are denying them basic human rights. That's why they protest you.
If you noticed, I never called any of you names for your opinions, but invariably you people call me names when I express a totally honest opinion about openly gay men being in the shower with other military personnel. I'm guessing that very few if any of you have ever set foot in a barracks....so.....how can you even have an opinion?? Still...you're entitled to yours, and I appreciate ALL of your opinion. I simply don't believe it's right to call people names about them. I wish you all a good day, and thanks for the thought provoking discussion!!
I thought I told you I lived in a barracks. (See the picture below? I've been there.) Are you reading anything I write? What difference does that make anyway? You have to have lived in a barracks or you can't have an opinion? When did you live in a barracks? Was it for more than a few weeks at boot camp? I don't know about you, but we didn't talk about sexuality at boot camp.
I called your opinion ignorant, immature, and irrational because that is exactly what it is, and it deserves to be called what it is. You think I have no right to judge you because I don't know you, but you have given me sufficient information in the posts you've written to form those opinions. They are in regards to the words you've written, not your whole personality.
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