Transgendered man thinks he is a female, looks like a female- is he?

**Ne-yo** · 06-06-2011 11:44 PM

I'm sure you would be angry, but the real question is. Now knowing, are you going to continue what you started and stay in the sack with this new found information?

EDIT:

Which really draws the question. Let's elaborate on this one particular scenario. If a Transgender person who is male and likes male then how do you distinguish this person from any other homosexual? If there really is a distinction. If a male who is transgender identifies themselves as female and they like female they can be identified as lesbian from what some people are stating here. But does it still apply if (hypothetically speaking) sloth was dating a transgender and didn't know it, does it make sloth homosexual?

**Marvo** · 06-07-2011 12:43 AM

It really depends on a lot of things. Perhaps sloth was attracted to the masculine/non-feminine aspects of this person at a subconscious level. Does this make him gay, or does he just like tomboys/big girls/flat chests? Who knows. At any rate, dating people as a transgendered person, without telling people who you really are, is a big nono, as it can very quickly land you in a lot of pain. Being transgendered is not easy.

**Ne-yo** · 06-07-2011 01:05 AM

Nice point Marvo.

**khh** · 06-07-2011 12:50 PM

Originally Posted by Marvo

It really depends on a lot of things. Perhaps sloth was attracted to the masculine/non-feminine aspects of this person at a subconscious level. Does this make him gay, or does he just like tomboys/big girls/flat chests? Who knows. At any rate, dating people as a transgendered person, without telling people who you really are, is a big nono, as it can very quickly land you in a lot of pain. Being transgendered is not easy.

But then again she could just as easily be more feminine than the average women. I don't really think there's a one size fit's all, here.

**tommo** · 06-07-2011 01:12 PM

Originally Posted by PhilosopherStoned

I would differentiate between sex and gender. I would define being a male as having a y chromosome and being a female as having two X chromosomes. There are people that don't fit into either category.

I would say that gender is defined by the role that a person plays in society. So I would say that the person is of the female gender and essentially treat the person as such.

So would you fuck "her"?

Serious question btw. I saw this transsexual on that Big Brother show once and I would have fucked her/him.

**Marvo** · 06-07-2011 02:44 PM

Originally Posted by khh

But then again she could just as easily be more feminine than the average women. I don't really think there's a one size fit's all, here.

Definitely true. I was just using some kind of hypothetical situation. Or something.

Tommo, depends on a lot of things, but if I liked the person, then I guess sure.

**khh** · 06-07-2011 03:05 PM

Originally Posted by Marvo

Tommo, depends on a lot of things, but if I liked the person, then I guess sure.

The thing I keep thinking about is the logistics, actually. With a regular woman it's easy, you know. There's a male part, and a female part, and they fit together. It's not really that clear cut here.

**Marvo** · 06-07-2011 03:58 PM

Originally Posted by khh

The thing I keep thinking about is the logistics, actually. With a regular woman it's easy, you know. There's a male part, and a female part, and they fit together. It's not really that clear cut here.

You just find a hole and go with it.

**tommo** · 06-08-2011 04:02 AM

Originally Posted by khh

The thing I keep thinking about is the logistics, actually. With a regular woman it's easy, you know. There's a male part, and a female part, and they fit together. It's not really that clear cut here.

Well, I meant if the guy looked female. Surgery done and everything.

**Sornaensis** · 06-08-2011 04:29 AM

That's not going to cut it for a dude expecting like. An actual vagine.

**tommo** · 06-08-2011 04:40 AM

I dare you to try and tell the difference.

**Jeff777** · 06-08-2011 06:56 AM

Originally Posted by tommo

I dare you to try and tell the difference.

Would you be okay with seeing a before picture prior to sex?

**tommo** · 06-08-2011 07:12 AM

Nope. Although I don't see what that has to do with what you quoted.

**Jeff777** · 06-08-2011 08:40 PM

Originally Posted by tommo

Nope. Although I don't see what that has to do with what you quoted.

The quote was meant to show you that I was addressing you with that question. Question didn't have much relevance to the quoted post.

**tommo** · 06-09-2011 02:23 AM

Originally Posted by Jeff777

The quote was meant to show you that I was addressing you with that question. Question didn't have much relevance to the quoted post.

Do you think that research in to high temperature superconductors is going to advance our technology massively within the next decade?

This has nothing to do with anything we're discussing, just wondering.

**Jeff777** · 06-09-2011 05:44 AM

Originally Posted by tommo

Do you think that research in to high temperature superconductors is going to advance our technology massively within the next decade?

This has nothing to do with anything we're discussing, just wondering.

Don't have an educated opinion on the subject to offer one. Where'd that come from?