 Originally Posted by sloth
Furthermore, one can make a rational decision, with emotional morals as a factor, without making an emotional decision. I do think that this would still be a rational decision, due to the consideration of the negative outcome that may come of ignoring these emotional factors. For instance, I may decide, rationally, to get my spouse (if I had one) a new dress, based on the knowledge that she will get all emotional and whiney, and this will have a negative impact on moral and therefore productivity in the household. This does not necessarily require that this is an emotional decision, even though it is, in fact, a decision based upon emotion.
emotional=whiney?
moral(e)=???
One should buy a wife a dress because one loves her and wants to do something special for her and show her how you feel. IF a man buys his wife a dress so she will shut up and stop bitching, this is not love, and not a happy marriage. Love is an emotion and is more important than this rationalization. What you are describing is a rationalization of an emotional decision. If you love her, you buy her a dress. If you don't love her rationally you would not buy her a dress so she will get fed up with you and leave and you can be free of this emotional whiney woman. I might be being facetious. But really, if you buy her a red dress to keep her from whining she will know, and not feel loved, and this rational decision will not reap the desired outcome.
Examples of rational decisions that are not based from sources which require emotional morals:
Eating - stemmed from the biological instinct for self preservation, and reproduction.
Working - stemmed from the bilogical instinct for self preservation, and reproduction.
Lovemaking - stemmed from the biological instinct for self preservation, and reproduction.
Building a house - stemmed from the biological instinct for self preservation, and reproduction.
Just about any other action that we perform - stemmed from the biological instinct for self preservation, and reproduction
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Yes it is true that things we do have rational purposes, but that is not what motivates us. You are rationalizing again. We "decide" to eat because it hurts us not to and it gives us pleasure to eat. We seek pleasure and happiness and avoid pain and suffering and unhappiness. Instincts are what motivate us to survive. People don't rationally decide to make love, at least the ones who are good at it don't. People may rationally decide NOT to make love. Emotion is a necessary ingredient to good lovemaking. In fact, emotion has reached its highest evolution in humans. Humans can make love as an art for exalted pleasure. Without emotion human lovemaking is more like animals' as a release and personal gratification. Have you ever watched a monkey make love? It lasts about a second or two and then they are relieved. Then they don't cuddle or anything afterwards. Emotions in humans is what inspires artists and musicians. The arts and music is one of the top measures of a civilization. The choice to create a painting is not based on rationality unless you are Thomas Kinkade.
In life or death situations we don't have time to think rationally. If the situation necessitates immediate action, like fight or flight, we need to act on gut impulses. When you are driving and a car cuts you off and slams on its breaks you don't have time to rationally decide to slam on your brakes. Emotion is much more efficient. Rationality is for coming up with explanations, or making decisions when there is time to think rationally.
On the other hand, that leaves the question: What is the point of emotion? If it is not necessary, why do we possess this quality, along with many different species of animal?
Emotion could be that which makes these instinctual instructions work. Without emotion, we would still take these actions necessary for self preservation, and reproduction, but I think that it is possible that if it became difficult to perform these functions, we may give up too easily. We might accept death too easily. MAYBE
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This is what I am talking about. Emotions are more powerful at motivating behavior than logic. Emotions don't "get in the way" of survival most of the time. The desire to live is an instinct, and it is emotionally based, not rationally based. Even someone with developmental disabilities who has no good genes to contribute to the gene pool still has a desire to live, which is not rational. Infertile people who are incapable of reproducing and who have no useful skills to contribute, still have a fear of death.
It is also possible that even without emotions, the instructions for survival would be even stronger, for it would be all that we knew, and we would be unrestricted from the limitations caused by emotion.
I think it is possible that you can see the answer to this within nature. It seems that some creatures do not exibit any signs of emotion. Of course we cannot prove this.
Bees and ants gladly give up their life for the good of the pack. Do they do this out of love for the pack, or are they simply programmed to do this?
We might not be able to recognize their emotions, but they do exist. Crocodiles have been shown to have emotions. I believe that emotions ARE the programming. I doubt that bees or ants are thinking rationally to give up their lives for the pack. I think that it is love for the queen.
I think that most likely it is possible that emotion is a phenomenon that is created within pack animals, and is necessary for the survival of the pack. A pack that cares about one another should be stronger than a group of uncaring individuals that live in the same area. While emotion makes the rules of pack survival work better, I don't believe it is absolutely necessary for survival, and since almost any action we perform can be attributed to survival of the species, that encompasses most of the things we do
Emotions are more developed in birds and most in mammals and mostly of all humans. Although I think that all animals have some degrees of emotions. But it reaches its highest development in order for child rearing and bonding in birds and mammals. Emotion is behind attraction. Even though logically we are attracted to mates that have desirable genes, it is an emotional response that we follow. It is our emotions that decide what genes are desirable.
I think that deifying rationality at the expense of emotionality is an error in judgement of priorities. Ideally, one should be very emotionally intelligent and balance that with a rationally trained intellect. The emotions are like the horses that draw the carriage, and the intellect should be the driver who holds the reins. The emotions only "get in the way" when the driver is gone or asleep or whatever. But without horses there is no inspiration or motivation to act. Logic can go in circles. If all we had was logic without emotions than what is the logic that humans should survive? Logically, humans are the greatest threat to life on this planet. And if there is no joy, no sadness, no emotions, what is the rationality behind why we should survive?
This is in defense of emotions. I am not attacking rationality. Both are needed, nature has done right to provide us with emotions. In fact, rationality seems to be not very much needed by nature to carry on life. Rationality is a gift unique to humans, at least in a significant amount. But it only seems to guide us rather than inspire us. But all too often people misuse rationality (also emotions). Too often a couple will fight, one partner will be frustrated because he or she will feel unheard and misunderstood while the other partner is saying "Calm down, be rational." Which only frustrates the first partner more, because emotions are important and in order for peace, we need understanding, in order for understanding, we need to acknowledge each other's emotions. Too often when someone is saying "be rational" they are really saying "don't be emotional". Of course, it is important to be able to see beyond personal emotions, but it is also important to take emotions into account on an equal basis.
BTW, this is interesting because I have seen so many people rationalize emotions but in this thread might be the first time I have seen someone emotionalize rationality. They are both interdependent in us humans.
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