Originally Posted by drewmandan
Two things in response: First of all, I have never, in my entire life, seen a non-pornographic internet video rouse such a pure emotional response out of people. Honestly, I was just plain surprised to see the reactions it got. I had a total 'WTF?' moment. Because normally if people disagree with the views expressed, they stop watching the damn video. They don't keep watching it and then start crying or something. Geezus.
Lol. Are you serious?
This post doesn't even make sense, in context. First off, if you're going to address someone's reaction to something, name names. Don't just say "people," because you got two completely different reactions (between Jeff and myself). You seem so "OMG shocked" that I felt it offensive if you posted the video with an intent to illicit an ill-response from the people here who have so far disagreed with you on the original topic. Do you even know what the word offensive really means? I said, rather calmly, that I felt you were attempting to start something by it. Misunderstanding or not, on my part, is that what you're saying was so "unstable?" You've never seen a video (placed in the middle of such a volatile discussion) arouse such a "pure, emotional response?" Please. Laying it on a bit thick, aren't you?
Secondly, if you were paying attention, nobody who responded said they were offended by the content of the video (because, seriously, how do you get offended by someone in a video?). What was offensive was your - perceptively deliberate - posting of said video in this discussion. The feeling of offense was from you, not the video. Not that hard a concept to understand, really. If you posted it on purpose, with an attempt to falsely associate those who disagreed with you with the kind of stuff that man was saying (which is neither below your usual posting style, nor an unfair assumption on anyone's part, due to the course of the conevrsation up to this point) then it would have been an offensive gesture on your part. Period. And I just want to be clear - You're implying that my mentioning that point is an "unstable, pure, emotional response" (which you're so trying to play up as being much more severe than it was)? If not, maybe you should really further explain who you mean by "people," as it implies more than one person, and think Jeff was the only person who really took offense to it. [Edit] Unless you were talking about Howie's calling it "tasteless and absurd," which was hardly an irrational response, either.[/Edit]
Originally Posted by drewmandan
Second, I put a disclaimer on my post that addressed any concern you may have had about my intentions. Did you read it?
You must have forgotten what I do here.
I closely watch people - like yourself - who tend to lean toward being very abrasive, smug and insulting in their posts. Having seen plenty of your posts and responses, when you disagree with someone, you find it somehow shocking that I doubted the sincerity of your "by the way, this is just a random, innocent video " disclaimer?
Seriously?
Like I said, if you didn't mean anything by posting that video, then there is no foul - and I would have no problem apologizing for presuming it to be deliberate. But don't sit there and act like you are so "*gasp* shocked and appalled" that someone who's aware of how you normally act came to that conclusion. If you are, you need to be a bit more aware of yourself, and how your regular attitude around here has given you that sort of reputation. Maybe then, the next time, it won't come as much of a surprise.
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