The sense of emotions and sensations..

**1793** · 02-13-2013 01:42 AM

This is just a quick question I'm curious about. I'm sure this has been discussed before, but this is my first time with all this and I hope I can find some help or understanding!

Last night I had a dream regarding someone I am deeply interested in and have been for a little while now. Someone whom, I'll be completely honest with, I've never even met or spoken to. The dream consisted of myself walking up to him as he was sitting down in a navy button-up shirt on a sort of white patio chair in the setting of some type of outdoor dusk party, sitting side-saddle on his lap and trying to kiss him, but he kept turning his head as if he knew I wanted to kiss him on the lips, and was only letting me kiss him on his cheek, near his eye and on his jawline of the right side of his face. His expression during this wasn't a bad one, but more of one that had a little bit of teasing or kidding in. I also remember wrapping my arms around his shoulders and placing my hands on the back of his neck, in the sense of a hug. I felt an eagerness in my need to kiss him, but I also didn't feel he hated me or was annoyed by me, but that he was just not in that 'place' right now with his feelings towards me to kiss back or let me indulge in my desires. I then remember walking off in a sense of defeat, I guess to mingle with others, when I could feel his presence behind me, following me, and when I turned back he was there, with a very soft loving sadness in his expression, perhaps even far enough to say a sense of acceptance towards me, and ended up holding my hand and walking with me.

The thing about this that's probably the most unsettling for me is that it was one of those dreams where everything felt real. I could feel the fabric of his shirt, and the slight clamminess of his skin. My lips could feel the grazing of his stubble when I kissed him and my fingers felt the hair on the back of his head when my hands were wrapped on the nape of his neck. It was the type of dream that left me feeling a little sick, mostly in the stomach area. Most likely from longing for it to be more true than a dream.. So I suppose my curiosity lands here, which is something I've never done, and I wonder what this sounds like to you, and to others? I am a Libra and from what I have read, Libra's have a sense of intuition to them. As much as I'd love for this to have the possibility of someday coming true and easing my high lust for this person, I am sure it is merely what it was. A dream I am having a hard time understanding/explaining. Many thanks.

**Xanous** · 02-13-2013 02:25 AM

I hate to be that guy but, sometimes dream seems just as real as waking life, lucid or not. I think this is especially true when there is deep emotion evolved. I have had dreams similar to what you are describing. Sometimes the emotion can linger for days or weeks. Usually, I wrote them off for what they were. Just dreams.

So are you asking if this was a precognitive dream? I don't exclude the possibility. However, the way I see it is that the future is always unwritten and never set in stone. I think we can dream of possible and/or probable outcomes but the problem is that we never seem to know until it happens.

I think most likely it was your longing for this person came out in your dream. But hey, you never know. Why not go for it? Unless you are or he is married or something.

By the way

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**SaxtonHale** · 02-13-2013 02:41 AM

I've had dreams of that intensity, but they usually involve horrifying totalitarian government liberation groups that I'm involved in, so I'd rather not have highly intense dreams be a telltale sign of precognitive dreams.

Either way, that's fantastic. incredibly vivid dreams are always fun, even when they do leave you a bit longing; they let you know what you really want or feel about something if you analyze your dreams symbolically.

**TwoCrystalCups** · 02-13-2013 02:55 AM

Oh i love dreams like these, i had them for a long time about some guy in school i used to know. It is about desire.
But don't forget the quote, "Dreams do come true", and faith in it is what leads you to it.

**1793** · 02-13-2013 04:23 PM

I really wish I could find a way to thank you guys for your responses.

I felt very silly asking this, but it was just one of those dreams that got under my skin, in a good way, and I figured why not see what it'd sound like to other smarty pants. :}

Emotions are strong with this one, so I'm going to keep good thoughts, and hopefully good dreams. :B

Thank you guys again. Much appreciated.