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You could try a technique in which you try to 'teleport' yourself to a different place, even after you appear in your house. Common methods of 'teleporting' include approaching a closed door, visualizing what you expect to find on the other side, and opening it; and spinning around on the spot while imagining that once you stop spinning, you'll be where you want to be. The spinning one also works well for some people as a dream stabilizer, making the dream seem more vivid and preventing you from waking up.