So after a very long time of lucidly searching for my dreamguide i have found her and she is everything i wanted my dreamguide to be and more but she is tricky after meeting her (BTW her name is Validae Dindaio) and learning her name i never find her when i go lucid instead i have dc's try to say they are her or she appears and like wakes me up she has also admitted to not letting me utilize dream control and she claims that she is not a regular dreamguide and is from somewhere else by that i mean she told me that she entered my mind or something and is now my DG which is just creepy also how can she control my ability to control things like i can only fly if she wills it! On my first and second lucids i was turning things to ice and flying at what felt like mach speeds now i just jump in the air fall and hurt myself i acknowledge it is a dream but why cant i do anything and why does my dreamguide only appear "When she feels like it" I understand she is like my other half, a manifestation of me or my subconscious but can she really be what she claims and how do i get back my dream control!!!!!! does anyone else have this problem? And she seems crazy because one moment she is crying cause she is happy the next she is screaming threatening to wake me or throwing dc's at me that tell me she told them to come to me instead and she leaves them messages to tell me i think there is an example in one of my dream journal entries regarding finding my dreamguide. But please HELP!