It's not like your DG exists separately from you, you don't need to "find" him, you need to get your subconscious good and wrapped around the concept of a DG until it can handle it. It has to propogate a reoccurring character that has enough of a personality that it rises above moment by moment expectations to create something that appears static in it's existance. Maybe that will happen with this DC, maybe it will kick in with another.

Thinking about it this way does not disempower DG's like a lot of people seem to believe, becuase when it does happen you will have an incredible, deep, alien personality to explore and learn from and it will be part of you, which is as amazing as anything else.

Now that I got my preaching out of the way being honest with yourself and your beliefs will only help you grow faster and achieve your goals Maybe I'm wrong and DG's really come from somewhere else. Good luck in all your endeavours!