While I was in bed last night, I was trying to reminisce about my childhood and started recalling events stored in my memory. One of them was memories of my grandmother, most importantly, me trying to imagine how her death played out. Whether she was hit head on, from the side, if she hit the windshield of the car and... ahhhh.

Is there any way to have this scenario play out in a lucid dream? And also... I can't exactly remember what she looks like. I can somewhat remember her face, but she mostly looks like an older version of my mom, with somewhat wider bone facial structure. Should I look at pictures of her to trigger my brain to give me dreams about her?