BIG problem for me.

**Chai** · 10-20-2012 10:11 PM

I recently started to get lucid dreams after tons of practice.but I have a BIG problem, I'm scared to do anything without a friend or family member (dream character). The last lucid dream a certain character despised me, this person is VERY important in my life, and I really want to spend time with this certain character, because its fun to be with other "people" in my dreams, how can I fix this? Can anybody help!?

**gab** · 10-21-2012 06:30 AM

I wouldn't take how people act towards you in a dream too seriously. It's a dream and they are most likely just characters, actors made up by your mind. You may try summoning a dream character.

**howtoluciddream** · 10-21-2012 09:18 AM

They're actually representations and sometimes, in my opinion, not very accurate. It's a matter of better controlling what happens in your dreams and being able to summon whomever you want.

**Matte87** · 10-21-2012 04:59 PM

Like gab said, they're just made up by your mind. Don't worry what anyone thinks of you in a dream. Infact, I'd say that the only place in the world where you don't have to care about anyone else but yourself, is in your own dreams whilst lucid.

**Chai** · 10-21-2012 06:59 PM

I know it just, bothers me, I'm not concerned but, more annoyed :/

**Rozmer** · 10-22-2012 02:20 AM

It doesn't mean there mad at you-well in the dream they are but in real life they are symbols-well they aren't anything in real life- in the dream a person getting mad at you is your unconscious telling you something. Everything means something, which I think is partly why there are random settings, certain things in the settings are symbols. Don't know how our unconscious expects us to figure out what the stuff means, but I do know-well according to Robert Waggoner the unconscious wants us to figure out what stuff means in the dream. That is also why if you ask a dream figure what they represent they'll tell you something random. I forgot what I am answering, I don't feel like checking. In gonna post this and hopes it helps

One more thing I hope I don't sound like those people who think there cool by saying a bunch of crap that they "know" is true. I just felt like I had to say that other stuff

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