Mirrors are fine for me too actually, for the most time at least, and in some dreams i get many reflective surfaces or non-surfaces.
I can read and write too, as JoannaB said it's based on expectations.
Pain varies for me from dream to dream, sometimes it's here, sometimes it's not.
For emotions, i sometimes also feel emotions not matching context, though not really often, and i also appear to not have any fears.
As for feeling different, that's not only in dreams for me, but that be a long story. As for magic and dream control, that's pretty awesome too.
Also if that's third person view you are talking about, i have experienced that as well a few times and even freely switched between first and third person, it's pretty useful at times.