Quote Originally Posted by CTX View Post
i just dont get into my head that i can control the dream.
I've heard about people who control their dreams but I've been a lucid dreamer all my life and I never really controlled much. Maybe with the right technique you can, but it hasn't been a natural thing to do even though I'm a natural lucid dreamer. I agree that having a concrete goal probably helps. The only control I've had over my lucid dreams is changing them completely in an uncontrollable way, waking up, or doing something bold or supernatural (like flying) that I wouldn't do in real life. Maybe you have no desire to change anything. I've had bad lucid dreams that I didn't change just because I didn't feel like it. I knew that if it got any worse I'd change it or wake myself up but I let it be slightly bad without bothering to do anything.