@StephL mostly 
I am not going to be doing any quoting, but this should answer all your questions. It should also (hopefully) make Christianity seem a little more clear to you.
Why Christians Cannot Be Possessed?
This one is quite easy actually. After reading your posts I don't see a single mention of Him. So we talk a lot as Christians about the “Big man upstairs” and the “Messiah”, but there is the third member of the trinity... The Holy Spirit. As soon as someone asks for Him, He comes in a possesses you.
The Bible is pretty clear about humans having free will (If you ask me) so the only way to lose free will is to give it to something. You cannot have it stolen. I give my will to God, He gives me The Holy Spirit as a guide to His Will. Can't have God with sin, so Jesus has taken all of my sins, can't have God with sin, so no other entity could be inside of me either.
What Does The Bible Mean When It Says “Witchcraft”?
Biggest rule of literal interpretations of the Bible:
What did the original author mean when he sent it to the original recipient?
Ok so you take something like Psalms. Songs to God. I can take that as just that, maybe some “epic foreshadowing, but I can't take it away from that context. John, written to everyone that you might believe. Etc.
So we look at “witchcraft” as it is mentioned in the Bible and what the original author meant, and we come up with 3 things:
People who prophesied from other gods about the future
People who tried to speak to the dead
Pharmakeia (most common) (People who tried to speak to spirits with herbs and plants... you know... Pharmacy? )
Not really Lding specific. So this moves Lding into another category:
Food Sacrificed before idols.
Before I get into that, I am going to talk a little about sin, since ya'll seem to be mislead about that as well.
Sin Defined
James 4:17 actually gives you a straight up definition of sin
Therefore, to one who knows the right thing to do and does not do it, to him it is sin.
So wait! If you don't know it is wrong, then you aren't accountable for it? Is this the only verse in The Bible that says this? What about the people in Africa! Or people in Europe and Asia before Jesus died that don't know anything about the Bible?
Romans 5:13
for until the Law sin was in the world, but sin is not imputed when there is no law
So sin isn't just doing wrong. It is knowing wrong and doing it. Let's take this to the beginning and see if it works.
God makes Adam and Eve and only one rule:
Don't eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for the day that you eat of it, you shall surely die.
So they only have one law to uphold. Sin in this world can only be done by breaking that one law. They broke it, but the tree had an after effect, it let them know of the other sins around, and they would now be held accountable to this.
Why is there Judgement?
So we take things back to the very beginning, and why did God make judgment for sin? Why not just let it slide? God makes things in an orderly fashion. Let's move this over to Lding terms.
You create a universe in your head. You make rules, you say E = MC^3 instead of squared because you are the boss. Now there is tons and tons of rules to make (you know the scientific laws) and one of them is called “The law of reaping and sewing” You reap what you sew. So if you choose to sew carrots, voila, you get carrots. However there are three rules inside the rule of reaping and sewing:
You reap:
what you sew
more than you sew
later than you sew
think about it... ok good. Hosea says that if you sew to the wind, you will reap the whirlwind. Haha.
Ok, so God has these rules, and one of them is this “if you break the law you will be judged by the law” He created the one law at the beginning “don't eat of the tree” and they ate, so they sewed to the knowledge of good and evil, and sin and they reaped more knowledge of good and evil and sin.
So sin entered the world, and death. Now God's rules for being with Him are simple “nothing that is against Him can reside with Him” Frick. That is everyone now that sin is in the world. Being a just God, he has to uphold the justice of the land that he set in place at the beginning. So people die, and after death, judgment. God always has a plan though because he is in past, present, and future. So what was His plan? He had another rule that was made, a loophole if you will. Blood can cover sin. Problem is, is that it has to be pure blood of someone undefiled by sin. Many will say here that the blood of bulls and goats covered the sin of people in the Old Testament. Not true. Hebrews 10:4
So Jesus comes to take away the sins of all, because no matter what any man wanted before, he wouldn't be able to get to God. Jesus takes away sin in the past, present, and future, so all you have to do now is believe in him. John 3:16, or a better translation would be trust. It is not works, and I will explain why.
What do you need to do to be any religion? The first thing is to actually put your trust in it, and then you have a list of duties to do in order to get your sins removed. As a Christian is to simply trust in Jesus. Simple? I hope so.
Verses that people leave out too much are the verses right after John 3:16 (this is verses 17-21)
For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him. He who believes in Him is not judged; he who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil. For everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come to the Light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. But he who practices the truth comes to the Light, so that his deeds may be manifested as having been wrought in God.
You mention God judging our every thought and judging Christians, there is no judgment for those in Christ. All my sins are gone. 
A true Christian would want to please God, and that if we truly believe, we will have a desire to change to be more like God. James says “Faith without works is dead”, giving the idea that if someone truly trusts in God, he will be changed, and want to please God.
Meat sacrificed before idols
In Romans, we are told of meat sacrificed before idols. It is a type of meat that was sacrificed to gods in a city and then it was put on the market as a way to please their god. Some Christians said “there is no way I am going to eat something that was sacrificed to an idol”, and some said “It doesn't matter if they set it aside for their gods, I can eat it.” Paul tells them that they can do whichever they want, to some that it was a way that they left in the past it might be hard for them to do without wanting to revert to their old life, to others, it was just meat. So he said to make sure that you don't do something to make someone stumble, but all in all, there is nothing wrong with it. So anything not mentioned directly in the Bible not to do (Fornication, stealing, lying, etc) is free game, it is for man to decide between him and God.
You ask me what my teachers would say.
My head pastor trusts my judgment and doesn't care.
Ok, so continuing with the story (I get sidetracked). We needed a sacrifice of pure undefiled blood. We got it, and it was Jesus. He laid down his life so that there would be no judgment for those in Christ.
A little bit of a summary:
God makes the world and gives man dominion of it.
Man screws up.
God fixes it.
You want to know why God would send you to hell, but what I think is interesting is that you hate God and want nothing to do with him, so He is just giving you what you want, an eternity away from Him, and all things good (all good things come from God).
Hope this clears things up for you! Sorry for all the delay. It is a lot for me to get to the computer, I actually really need to take a nap right now. If I didn't answer some questions, then I apologize.
I am sorry that you have so much hatred towards Christianity, I feel like a Christian wronged you in the past, we are not supposed to be judgmental, but extending love to all so that people might see our love and glorify God in heaven. Sometimes Christians don't act like they should, or they act out from bad teaching and misinformation. The most common is obviously how many Christians treat gays and lesbians. While a Christian should not do something that displeases God (lev 18:22), that does not mean that we should hold non Christians to the standards God holds us to. We are to extend grace and then show people how to achieve peace. Not the other way around. I love you and hope that you understand Christians a little more.
Just Remembered!
Having sex with my wife in a dream like masturbation? Maybe. The Bible doesn't really straight up say anything about masturbation, but it does say that "whoever looks at a woman and lusts after her is an adulterer at heart" which is the main reason people (other than catholics) are anti-masturbation. So...
1) I don't think that I can "lust" after my wife, since she is the person I should be imagining sex with
2) I still don't like the idea of masturbating whether to the idea of my wife or otherwise, but I think you might notice a trend in my dream journal of leaving out details (especially my thoughts) and thinking that DCs are real people. So I often think that I am actually having "dream sex" with my wife, because I am confused and less aware. Sometimes I simply cannot resist my dream wife because she is freaking sexy. I don't really have any guilt about it, though I do try to avoid it because dream time is precious and I can "Get some" in waking more than I LD. 
More on the subject of what we think. What a man thinks in his heart (mind) so is he.
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