I tried this last night, and although I did have a DEILD, even while I was imagining the dream scene I wanted during the dream I was having, I was still not able incubate the dream I wanted. So, expectation and motivation is actually everything when it comes to dream incubation.
The expectations and motivations required for our desired dream have to be changed from "can't" into "can" and "won't" into "will." We have to think that we can have the dream we want and that we will have the dream we want. Identifying when this isn't the case can help us explain why we aren't having the dreams we want. For example, during the dream I had, I thought I couldn't have the dream I wanted because what I was trying wasn't working. We have to believe in our abilities to have the dreams we want.
As for motivation, if we are not motivated enough to have our desired dream, it is probably because we are even more motivated to have other dreams. Identifying and resolving the motivations behind those motivations might help make our desired dream important enough to be dreamed about.
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