why not try to set a triger in your dream stat to ristrict your lucid dreams? Tell your mind that you will not have a lucid dream in a lucid dream, and see if it works.

Another option is to "let go" of your control when dreaming, and ... well, I'm not sure how to say this, but think of it this way: You let things happen in the dream.

Now, the dreams trying to make you beleive them might actually help you, as if you exept them as real, then it becomes easier to let go (or so I would imagine)

good luck