Thread: Please Help I Really Need Advice!

yeah dude calm down. who cares what your teacher thinks? he cant do anything to you about it. and he already said he doesnt remember. If he remembers its not like he is going to do anything about it. He might even think its cool and want you to teach him how to do it. that is, if he remembers.

I'd be pissed! Why didn't you come back and bring him the correct journal? Did he really grade all of those journals in a single day? I'd at least try to confront him again and explain things thoughroughly, for the sake of my grade.

I'm including a disclaimer in my dream journal, calmly explaining what it's all about. Because there are certain snoops where I live that are bound to read it.

No worries

He most likely does not remember. And even if he did, you have to ask yourself:

Would YOU really care if HE accidently gave you HIS dream journal?

It really wouldn't be a big deal to you would it? It's not something you would think about, let alone remember for a while.

Plus hes a teacher my friend. Let me tell you, teachers have SEEN IT ALL. I promise you he's heard much weirder things.

I once told my friend I wanted to have sex with my teacher (I was 5th grade) and he FREAKING TOLD ON ME! So I had to face that teacher knowing that she knew what I thought of her!

Thing is, as time goes by your mind lets it go naturally and you stop caring.


(Best thing is, your teacher has to read TONS of those journals, chances are he really DOESNT remember, like he said.)

Don't stress

yeah just ell ur teacher to get a life i mean who cares it's none of his bussiness. If he asked just tell him that u think his class is retarded so instead of doing ur work like you should u decided to mess with him. Trust me if i was in ur shoes i'd would not sweat it.

All I can tell you...is that your teacher has alot of students, and alot of other things to think about than your dream journal. I doubt they even gave it a second thought. I know it feels like a big deal to you now...but it really isn't. Just try to look at it from a wider perspective.

This sorta reminds me of this really embarssing thing that happened to me in high school. I was using the scanner in the school library and I ended up leaving a notebook behind. I'm a chronic doodler, and well...some of my doodles and drawings in that notebook were...uh...not PG-13 lol...

I was so freaked out, and when I went back to the library to see if my notebook was there...the librarian said she had it, and she was like on the verge of tears and telling me how disgusted she was and said she threw it away!!! LOL!! I had a ton of notes and shit in there...not just drawings and doodles of naked people :p ...I couldn't believe what a rigid uptight bitch she was! But now I can look back at it and laugh.

Seriously...it's really not such a big deal.

what kinda bothered me was when I gave him the correct journal a few months later he chuckled a little while reading it ( the two journals look alot alike) so I guess he remembered

anything embarrassing ever happen with anyone elses dreamjournal?

Originally Posted by Abra

I'd be pissed! Why didn't you come back and bring him the correct journal? Did he really grade all of those journals in a single day? I'd at least try to confront him again and explain things thoughroughly, for the sake of my grade.

I'm including a disclaimer in my dream journal, calmly explaining what it's all about. Because there are certain snoops where I live that are bound to read it.

I have a huge book, so the ACTUAL dreams start halfway. The front has a few pages of funny "GET LOST" pictures and funny "terms and conditions" which is in tiny writing so someone would soon get bored.

i think you just need to buckle down and say, if he gives a shit about what i do in my free time, and if i have a dream journal or w/e, then fuck him its not his business.

Yeah I always have trouble sleeping after silly things like this (such as when I go all paranoid and think teachers think I'm stupid, but truth be told people never seem to remember or at least never bring it up in conversation so DON'T worry

You'll get over it.

This is one thing that has always made me shy away from journaling - just the possibility of people reading it and judging you without even understanding it completely.

I did start up a journal since lucid dreaming, however, there's some things I do to keep it "safe".

One thing is to keep names of people that exist in my real life out as much as possible. Either use a nickname, abbreviation or some hint that might remind you about who it is you're dreaming about. But that's only if it's something I wouldn't want to have that person read.

Another is to just keep it clear that you're writing about something you usually have no control over - it's a dream and doesn't necessarily reflect what you'd do in real life.

Finally, I have this naturally built-in feature about my journal... my freaking handwritting is horrible! LOL! It's about as bad as a doctor's. Good luck to those who try to decipher my chicken scratch.

All the above along with some "shorthand" for words I put in there make my journal not so easy for someone to get the full story.

Originally Posted by Niña

I was so freaked out, and when I went back to the library to see if my notebook was there...the librarian said she had it, and she was like on the verge of tears and telling me how disgusted she was and said she threw it away!!

Dude, that's some set o balls to go back there for that thing!
I remember doing some of those adult pieces myself back in the day - and there was only one which I can recall that I actually folded up about 8 times and in each fold I wrote stuff like "do not look beyond this point..", "You will witness some very vulgar stuff - stop!" etc. All that just in case it fell into the wrong hands. What a dork, as if it would have really stopped anyone

thanks everyone! My teacher is mean anyways so alot of the kids dont like him, on the last day of school he was such a prick to me so just forget him