Thread: DC's are passive-defensive?

Originally Posted by Hercuflea

I don't what any of you think about this, but I have been looking through this forum and reading everyone's dream journals and dream recalls and what i have noticed is that whenever someone is lucid and they go up to a DC and try to talk to them about the act of dreaming by saying something like

"Do you know that you are just a figment of my imagination?"

or

"I am dreaming and you are not real, what do you think about that?"

99% of the time they usually either

1. Do not reply
2. Become hostile
3. Reply with some stupid answer like "well i guess that means the cat ate its own seesaw..."

I think this is a sign that your sub-conscious does not want you to know the secrets of dreaming, or maybe isn't fast enough to come up with a genuine reply quick enough. What do you all think about this?

I think this is because of the lack of experience one has with this issue. Such an event does not occur in reality (asking someone if they realise that they are dreaming), and an individual has probably never tried such an act in reality. Naturally, your mind has no expectations of such a situation, hence, repsonses are nonsensical, or defensive (as the mind does not know how to react due to a lack of experience).

I notice my dream characters act as I'd expect in the waking world. once I ran up to my best friend while Lucid and told him he was my imagination and that whatever he said was just my subconcious. he just laughed at me! and if I tried to pull that off right now, I'd expect the same!

Not particularly, once I met a girl who's boyfriend had left her when she became pregnant, she was kicked out her house and she was not rich enough to support herself. This was a long while ago and I can't remember what it was that made me realise I was dreaming, I think it was the entire nature of how I felt- I just knew I was dreaming, but instead of just randomly flying around when I was lucid I decided to help her out and I said to her,

"I bet you didn't know that I am actually making you up, I'm practically like a God to be honest with you "

and she replied with,

"Really?! Can you control everything that happens in the world then? "

I said-

"I guess so yes, but I'm going to wake up now, but before I go, I'm going to do one thing... Don't tell ANYONE I did this for you, but I'm going to give you a great big house and plenty of money to make your life better for you and your baby... O.K? "

She thanked me greatly and I hugged her. Then I said-

"Right... I need to go now, I probably wont ever see you again so I wish you the best of luck in life, everything will go smoothly for you from now now "

She said goodbye and I woke up haha

I think that you can expect a much clearer and constructed answer from a DC that you have known for longer period of time.
Thanks =]
Jim.

I find just asking DCs normal questions is rather amusing. You seem to get more out of this. I remember I was once dreaming of being in a co-op and telling my fellow DCs that they were dreaming. All the adults looked at me as if I was mental but funnily enough only the children understood!

I think too much of the logical brain is turned off so it can't think of a response quick enough.

i still think its something bigger, i think your sub-c is trying to hide something

Originally Posted by Hercuflea

i still think its something bigger, i think your sub-c is trying to hide something

Go ahead and think that. Why did you create this topic though if you aren't at least a LITTLE interested in observing other peoples opinions?

As for me, I think it is just what you expect. I haven't had much experiance myself, but from other peoples dreams I notice that whatever they EXPECT to happen will happen. If you don't know what on earth your DC could come up with, or you expect him/her to come up with something random, they will. On my first LD I told my eldest sister that I was dreaming and she didn't really exist. She just glared at me. (Then again, that might have been because I kept poking her)

P.S. Jim, I find that amusing because since she didn't exist, everything you said and did to/for her would just disapear. But I sorta do the same thing in my dreams so I can't really say anything.

Originally Posted by Jimmehboi

Not particularly, once I met a girl who's boyfriend had left her when she became pregnant, she was kicked out her house and she was not rich enough to support herself. This was a long while ago and I can't remember what it was that made me realise I was dreaming, I think it was the entire nature of how I felt- I just knew I was dreaming, but instead of just randomly flying around when I was lucid I decided to help her out and I said to her,

"I bet you didn't know that I am actually making you up, I'm practically like a God to be honest with you "

and she replied with,

"Really?! Can you control everything that happens in the world then? "

I said-

"I guess so yes, but I'm going to wake up now, but before I go, I'm going to do one thing... Don't tell ANYONE I did this for you, but I'm going to give you a great big house and plenty of money to make your life better for you and your baby... O.K? "

She thanked me greatly and I hugged her. Then I said-

"Right... I need to go now, I probably wont ever see you again so I wish you the best of luck in life, everything will go smoothly for you from now now "

She said goodbye and I woke up haha

I think that you can expect a much clearer and constructed answer from a DC that you have known for longer period of time.
Thanks =]
Jim.

maybe you have found your dream guide.