Thread: Sex Dream Frustration

If you're lucid it shouldn't be too hard...

Just walk/fly away or something.

At least one hormone involved in inducing dreams is a proven aphrodisiac. Its no wonder us guys wake up with morning wood. I sometimes have your same problem, the only way I know to reduce it is by trying to go ta bed as un-horny as possible. So one way or another i try to bust each evening, if possible right before bed, even if I don't have a strong desire to. The only other possible solution is avoiding meals before bed since food metabolism also increases hormones which are aphrodisiacs. I really can't think of anything else other than taking something that is the opposite of an aphrodisiac, but usually decreased libido is a side effect of a substance, rather than the indication.

Sometimes my LDs get to that, but not often. I hear it happens to a lot people, so it isn't uncommon. Anyway I was told that it is a primitive form of consciousness that only worries about what we need to survive, like running away from danger, or having imaginary sex

I suppose the best way to stop it is to stop for a second to control yourself - which doesn't really work for me. so I have a plan to set my mind on something more important than anything else (before I go to sleep every noght), like finding my dream guide or doing a monthly task.

Thats all I can think of at the moment, so I hope it helped a little

i'm not gona lie but you most probably are craving having sex with someone else than your husband.

It's extremely common to feel unusually horny while lucid. As lucid4sho hinted at, it probably has something to do with your brain chemistry while asleep. Anyway, all you can really do is try your best to restrain yourself while lucid. And believe me, I know how hard that can be - I still struggle with it! I think it's worth trying to restrain yourself, though, because there's so much more interesting stuff to do while lucid (plus lucid sex has a tendency to wake me up).

Getting distracted by sex in LDs is really common. Here is a tutorial on how to avoid sexual distractions.

http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...ad.php?t=49240

Hope this helps!