
Originally Posted by
Sageous
^^ For successfully DEILDing, there is no need to remember all your dreams from that night, and certainly no need to write anything down (for the particular DEILD you are attempting, of course; you should still keep a DJ regardless).
All you need is good enough recall to have a feel for the dream you are exiting; an understanding that you are exiting a dream as you wake up. You likely have that feel already, given that you are keeping a DJ. With that feel, you can focus on your return to the dream you just exited when you go back to sleep. Which brings on you other problem:
If it always takes as long as 30 minutes to fall back to sleep, then DEILD might not be the thing for you. However:
DEILD works best when you can realize that you are waking up from a dream, and can pretty much go back to sleep before you are fully awake. This is not as difficult as it might sound: you naturally tend to wake up and return to sleep almost immediately several times a night, even if you don't remember. What you want to do with DEILD is catch one of these awakenings, and basically allow yourself to jump across that brief awakening without losing the dream. In your case, it could be that you are waking up fully before attempting a DEILD, which would result in your missing the opportunity to make that jump.
What to do about it? Well, you could try to stay calm, keep your eyes closed, remember or continue to visualize your dream and simply wait for sleep to return (and of course do the stuff that Zoth lists in the OP). If you are calm enough, then you might avoid coming fully awake and return to your dream in moments. But if this always fails and you tend to be fully awake immediately, then you might want to consider converting that DEILD attempt to a traditional WILD attempt.
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