I think that it has to do with our desensitization to just about everything, and how we're taught to live.
When sitting in front of a TV, generally, the person doesn't feel anything. Yes, they're watching what's going on, but they aren't feeling what's happening in there, nor are they focussed on it. If a gust of wind blows, you don't actually feel it, though you're seeing it on the TV screen. I think that this sort of desensitization just leaks into the rest of our life. Suddenly, we don't feel lucid in just about anything we do.
I think that this roots in the way of life we're taught and used to. With the TV example, we apply that mindset to everyday. When we watch something, we genarally aren't paying attention to ourself as well. How many people, while watching TV, think about how plush and wonderful the couch feels? Do they feel how sensual the fabric is against their skin? Do they hear anything but they TV? Do they taste the saliva in their mouth, and feel its odd heat spreading among their tongue and teeth?
Probably most people won't. Maybe people like us, who focus on these things, will. But who else will, especially if they're not taught to do so? They won't know that they can feel that if they've never been shown. The fact that the nothingness of focussing on that TV is pleasurable also adds to it. Maybe not as pleasurable of being self aware, but they don't know that. This kind of ignorance can be applied to many things modern. Video games, internet, ect ect. Don't get me wrong; they're all great tools. But they affect us like this, and I guess most people don't acknowledge that. And plus, we don't see the need to be aware, so why should we bother?
I think this sort of thing can apply to just about anything. The soda example you guys are talking about is like a material version of it. Suddenly we're taught to just drink it, maybe it's the only thing around, or the only thing we think we like. But once you're weaned off it isn't the same. I've experienced this sort of thing with just about all food when I stopped eating so much junk. Some food just didn't taste good anymore; sometimes it tasted commercial. Some food was enhanced; everything seemed so much more intense and pleasurable, especially because I'm no longer gorged with it. Some food physically makes me sick now. And yet, I can look at people who were raised to eat all of that and never thought to make a change (or maybe did but didn't go through with it). It's like they're trained to do just that. They eat and eat and eat and eat stuff that is bad for them, and there I am gaping in awe at how they could possibly eat that and not feel sick. I also fail to understand how people never seem to be thirsty; I ALWAYS have water, and I can't really drink anything else without feeling dehydrated.
Now, of course, feeding the soul doesn't pertain simply to meditation. It can be something you personally enjoy a lot. For me, it's art and music. Even when not meditating, art and music can feed my soul. When I am playing I am lucid. I think while I'm playing. And the things that art and music do fascinate me. They make me question the world around us, and wonder. And, I suppose, any wonderment like that will cause you to be lucid. And I can see it in the people around me. I'm still in high school. The majority of people are unmotivated, lazy, and don't take care of themselves. I mean, yes, obviously I like to have fun and do stupid things too once in a while. But these people have no passion, no goal, no nothing. They just want to party and be lazy. Do you know how many people don't pass classes simply due to their laziness? They complain all day and night about it, whine because the work is "too hard" because they simply just don't want do it, and then cry about it once they're sent to summer school. It's not hard to pass a class. Passing a class means getting over 50, not 90. It's not hard. And people have to do shit all the time that they don't like; just have to suck it up. But anyways, the point I was getting at - they have no idea what they want. They have nothing to aim for, and therefore nothing to work for. Except maybe for partying, but that just requires money, and making money often isn't about doing something that you can enjoy and feed your soul with.
And, so, most people just simply don't know. They don't know how amazing it feels to feed their soul, nor do they know how to. Maybe they desire that fullness and move on to other things, thinking it will give them that effect. I guess a lot of them might resort to things that they think feeds them. And I think most of those people fall into the stereotypical party scene. Don't get me wrong, I like to party, but I've experienced it - and it doesn't feed my soul at all. Rather, I feel unaccomplished and hollow if I do it too much.
I also feel that, though more particularly in the Western culture, most people won't discover this because of the face of the media. Among teens my age, meditation is "lame", "uncool", "weird", ect. In the media meditation is made fun of. When I was young people would reenact meditation with the whole cross-legged sitting thing and the "ohhhhm" and the fingers touching and whatnot. It's seen as silly, funny, stupid, and a hippy-new aged/spiritualist bullshitter activity by the media. If I tell any of my friends that I just meditated they'd probably either laugh or say "wtf?". This doesn't help either. They don't know, and they have no idea how it can help.
That also ties in with the fact that it doesn't seem like it would do anything. To the average person, meditating looks like just sitting there and doing nothing. To the average person, it probably is just that too. You have to have a certain desire to know the unknown, to seek the experiences other people talk about, and also a strong self awareness and motivation. Most people probably won't even acknowledge that sitting there and focussing for 10 minutes might clear their mind and help them as a whole. They don't know that, they aren't trained to think so. The desensitization just feeds the lack of insight on everything, and suddenly nothingness is pleasurable.
And no, meditation is not nothingness. Meditation is everything from and about yourself.
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