Yes, this thing with my eyes wanting to shift perspectives has happened to me a few times. It's maybe every 7th or 8th dream, and I wish that I had a good explanation for what causes it. It also doesn't usually collapse the dream scene for me and kind of goes away after a second.

Can you describe this urge to look away? Is it sudden and violent? Do you feel that your negative feelings about this urge to look around are perhaps what collapses the dream scene? I know that when I get upset about my dream control during a dream I often blow it up. (I am nowhere near "past" this problem!)

I'll have to think about this one a bit more. One thing I'd definitely advise is to go with the flow in any way that you can during a dream. If something strange or seemingly negative happens, you can often flow with it and get yourself back on track. I find that if I always believe that the dream is taking me where I want (or need) to be, things tend to work out.

Good luck, and keep us updated! I'm enjoying hearing about all the LDs you're having.