Interesting dreams, each one shares a common problem. You are getting way to far ahead of yourself, you need to slow down and stay calm. Don't rush into things, take it as it goes and do your best to control the situation. There are a lot of great guides here that can help you control your dreams. As GMoney said, keep a dream journal and record everything that occurs within your dreams. Dream journals help remarkably. If you need help with anything feel free to send me a private message, I'm more than willing to help. Good luck!