Thread: need help to lucid dream. unusual dreamer.

The important thing is to only reality check when necessary, for example: like when of your reoccuring dream signs pops up, also I suggest you maybe try incubation, or visualizing of what you would want to dream before hand by asking questions about the overall setting. Also I suggest looking into some DILD and MILD tutorials, either user based tutorials or the ones the site has to offer. I don't talk much in dreams either, but i dont think it necssarily matters. when you question reality and do reality checks at the right time eventually it will pay off in your dreams.

good luck!

ok i been thinking since i have soo difrent dreams. and have alot of unreal dreams based on nothing i experienced i know theres one thing i dream about somthimes. and that is if i like a girl. it just soo happend i like a girl rigth now XD wich belive it is rare. soo using her as a reality sheck maby.

btw another thing any clue why the 3 times i managed to enter lucid dreams everything turns black?

and another thing to visualize what i want to dream before i go to bed is very hard for me never worked. well the main thing is i dream alot of eccounters i never experienced before. my mind makes upp almost all of it. im a massive daydreamer. forexample when im tierd i daydream automaticly my mind makes a story. i like to dream my self awey.
the closest thing to reality dream i had latley was that i shecked my bank account. and apperntly all my money was gone exxept 3 kr/half a dollar. wich was 1 week ago. i know if my mind is effected by somthing with in the importen cirle of what i feel is importen im likley to have a dream about it 3 days or soo lather. i usaly have dreams a few days lather of what have effected me or thougth about. wich again girlfriend is the best thing to use since its probly the thing that effecfts me most in life.

another thing well this is abit wierd it was at the age 9 to 11 i stoped having emotions in dreams i had my first nightmare then. i woke upp gasping for air. and it just came soo naturly this thougth to mee its just a dream why should i react to it or be scared of it and i went strait to sleep. and ever since then i had no emotions in dreams. personaly i would say im alitle bit conected with my subconciusness like how strongly just that effected me and when i did the reality shecks 3 months back. wich i used it on everything then but it worked in less then week but i just wake upp after 10 secons from the lucid dream. ok i think i got better chance now of doing it alitle bit.

about your lucids going black, usually the first few lucids are short, so no worries about that.

and usually in normal dreams i dont think much either, if you train yourself to question your surrondings though your dream self will become a little more aware.