It sounds like you've been lucid dreaming for a while, congrats! You're lucky that you get so many. Like Matte said, to be lucid you don't need to use dream control. Also, don't forget to check out the DV chat. You can connect with an IRC client or click the "chat" link in the navigation menu at the top of the page. That's where all the cool people hang out.

PS: I'm so jealous I never remembered dreams until I started trying really hard to, and even now my recall is random at best.