Hey Yoshi, thanks for your long and detailed and helpfull reply. It is amazing that you take time to sit down and help someone like that. Your advice makes sense, and i simply have to wait for my next lucid expereince they seem quite random.
I keep having some strange half lucid expereinces, where its like i havent entered the dream deep enough, and it actaully feels like a struggle to be there.
Im hoping that it is just a case of time and positive mental attitude.
It certainlly encourages me a lot to see people like yourself take the time to help others, so once again
thanks