hi i just joined this site today and i am excited by all the talk and discussions going on, first, is the chat working or am i not doing something properly, when i click on it nothing happens. second, i have had a few lucid dreams, i realized this was possible when i was shot in my dream and did not feel any pain and did not wake up, i also flew in the same dream on purpose. what i am trying to find out is at the moment i am lucky to have a dream once or twice a month (that i can remember) is it possible realize your asleep and then create a dream or am i going ahead of myself and just need to make do with the dreams i get and try to turn become lucid in those dreams?