So im a newbie to dreamviews, and am here to ask if it is usual for somewhat of a beginner to have little to no lucid dreams. I have been practicing lucid dreaming for about three months, and out of that have only accomplished a two second lucid. That was about two weeks ago. I look around and i see people talking about how they have had lucid dreams in the first week or even on the night upon starting. It is very discouraging how they have so much success but in my situtation i am getting nothing. When i read things like this i feel very incompetent. Makes me want to flip the damn coffee table over, grab my lamp and throw it through the window, jump through and stab myself with one of the shards.
Maybe joining this site will be the change in my dreams

It just makes me mad to know of how much i have been practicing and all of these noobs get lucid dreams handed to them on a silver platter.