I think everyone here get's up. Most of us had to really work up their way into lucidity, and even for the most experienced oneironauts, I'm sure it wasn't always easy.

What you should do first of all, is sharing with people what method are you using, maybe it's not the right one, or maybe you're not performing it at it's best. Because if anyone can have lucid dreams, that means you will also have them.

I only recently started to serious practice lucid dreaming, and even in the day where I slack or get frustated by lack of dream recall, I think "I'm so freaking lucky for knowing what these dreams are, no way I will stop practicing".

Trust us, you will have lucid dreams, or even maybe you do have them, but cannot recall them eheh