Hi there my friend,
Glad you've joined DV. Always remember that everybody can lucid dream, but of course, patience and determination is needed. Dream recall is very important in the field of lucid dreaming, so try reading the official dream recall tutorial to know how you can enhance your dream recall. Also, get yourself a Dream Journal to aid and exercise your dream recall my friend. And here's another useful info: Foods rich in Vitamin B6 (like peanuts and bananas), enhances a person's dream recall. So try to eat foods rich in b6 before you go to bed.

Anyways, based on your account and situation, I think the DILD method is the most suitable method for you. It's one of the most easy methods out there. The main concept of the method is to always ask yourself wether you're in a dream or not. Sometimes, when a you're in a dream, you just tend to follow the dream plot. But with proper awareness and proper habit of questioning reality, you might just be able to realize that you're inside a dream. Here's a full guide on what you need to know on how you can do a DILD: http://www.dreamviews.com/f49/sat-sp...puffin-100798/ .

Just keep trying and you'll have your first LD in no time. If you've got questions, feel free to reply back. Hope this helps and good luck