Thanks Zoth!!

So, could my dream sign be something like, everytime i walk into another room i do a RC?
Or something that includes sight like u said,seeing a car

And what did u use for your first willing LD? and how do u like the technique? do u prefer it?

haha sorry very curious MILD is just telling and assuring urself that you WILL have a LD right?

heres what i do at night...
if i remember i will:
1. Get 30 minutes to relax in bed, think about LD and tell myself i will remember my dreams and i will hav a LD etc. etc.
2. Close my eyes and vision how i want my dream
3. repeat
4. IF i wake up earlier than usual or when i wake up i add what i remembered in my dream to my DJ

that is all >.< and i need to find a dream sign so i can get into the habit of RC'ing cuz right now i am searching for one so i can get used to it, so that is prolly my main problem