Try not to stress out too much over getting lucid. Definitely keep up the reality checks, and keep up the dream journal. In the past I've recommended that someone stop trying for a week or so and then try... and a lot of times it will just come naturally to you after putting so much intention into it.

Most of all, don't stress. Just do what feels best and you'll get there.

Welcome to DV! Feel free to ask me any questions.