Quote Originally Posted by monkeyking View Post
Pamela. As a therapist I certainly advise you to seek some sort of counseling. A good therapist will be able to help you work out many of the issuesyou are dealing with in your life right now. That will be a powerful aid in combating your troubling sleep issues, especially if you plan on using lucidity as a sort of sleep therapy (I'm actually working on some crude theory now) Remember that a holistic, that is to say complete, approach to working through your tragedy will ultimately be the most good.

I can only imagine how hard this must be for you and always will be. I am sorry for your loss.
Thank you kindly for your advice...since I am unable to move out of the first stage of grief, my husband pushed me into therapy...I was amazed when she laughed out loud @ me when I told her I was not included in the obit my ex-husband put in paper, refusing to list me as her mother, saying it was an "error"..."typo", that I was being paranoid! I told my husband about the shocking response I got & he suggested I stop going there...do you know of anyone good in the Hollywood, Miami, Ft. Lauderdale or Pembroke Pines, FL area? I do need help getting through all the stages of grief and being able to resume a somewhat normal routine! Thank you so much