There might be some people that can relate to this..I put this in inner sanctum cause it seems more like an esoteric or spiritual question rather than a religious question. |
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“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” - Albert Einstein
sometimes. |
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157 is a prime number. The next prime is 163 and the previous prime is 151, which with 157 form a sexy prime triplet. Taking the arithmetic mean of those primes yields 157, thus it is a balanced prime.
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“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” - Albert Einstein
Mmm, I think assholes are going to be assholes. Sometimes they make fun of people FOR being kind, so it's a viscous circle. It might be best to ignore them. I feel they deserve no attention. If it's affection or attention they want, they'll eventually learn that being hateful is not the way. |
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Last edited by JamesIsDreaming; 05-16-2011 at 08:15 AM.
From my experience no. If they are mean and hateful you should kick their ass if you can't just get the fuck away from them if you can. If they are in a position to control you, you must give them what they deserve when the time is right. |
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Our truest life is when we are in dreams awake
Last edited by JamesIsDreaming; 05-17-2011 at 04:58 AM.
I think loving others in the face of supreme adversity is the ultimate show of self-discipline. When I was meditating the other day I realized that its easier to love everything (please dont laugh) and I feel much happier for it. There are certain monks and people ive met who can stare at you with a loving gaze and all bad emotions for them simply melt away, its an amazing experience. |
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I agree completely with Evan, and your first statement is powerful. |
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If someone is a dick hole to you, its only natural to get angry. I am always nice. But when someone provokes me with hate, I do not respond in a nice way because they probably don't care. |
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Our truest life is when we are in dreams awake
157 is a prime number. The next prime is 163 and the previous prime is 151, which with 157 form a sexy prime triplet. Taking the arithmetic mean of those primes yields 157, thus it is a balanced prime.
Women and rhythm section first - Jaco Pastorious
I see, and I agree with that, but in a non-violent way. Conversation is an fundamental aspect of reaching truth. |
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Most human interactions are not very present-minded or spontaneous. Particularly on first meetings or limited acquaintance, there are a handful of roles people are likely to adopt, and just a few scripts they are likely to act out. When someone adopts the role of asshole or instigator, the most predictable response--the response that most reinforces their narrow view of what is possible in human interaction--is to get angry. If you do get angry, you're letting the 'asshole' lead the dance, but really it's not even that person directing the encounter, because they're just acting out a habitual pattern which you have affirmed and reinforced by playing your role in it. So, unless you take control of the situation in a way that stops the script from playing out, no one is in control of the situation, and the pattern of aggression is strengthened in each of you. |
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If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama
I think I'm gonna make some cookies now, that sounds sooo good. |
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157 is a prime number. The next prime is 163 and the previous prime is 151, which with 157 form a sexy prime triplet. Taking the arithmetic mean of those primes yields 157, thus it is a balanced prime.
Women and rhythm section first - Jaco Pastorious
The problem with 'hate' is, what defines hate? |
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a negative emotion that you designate as bad. |
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hey Tao, this was a good answer. |
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“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” - Albert Einstein
The best thing to do is ignore them or just bear with it to the amount that is acceptable to the person or situation until you don't have to deal with it any longer. If you don't like being around someone and you can leave without any real serious negative consiquinces in your life or whatever. Just get the fuck away from them. There is no reason to hang around people you don't like and feel uncomfortable around if you don't need to. |
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I never show my anger outwardly or directly, I don't like confrontations or see the point of it. let everything be is what i think |
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From my rotting body,
flowers shall grow
and I am in them
and that is eternity.
-Edvard Munch
157 is a prime number. The next prime is 163 and the previous prime is 151, which with 157 form a sexy prime triplet. Taking the arithmetic mean of those primes yields 157, thus it is a balanced prime.
Women and rhythm section first - Jaco Pastorious
From my rotting body,
flowers shall grow
and I am in them
and that is eternity.
-Edvard Munch
It doesn't work don't even try it. I know from self experience. |
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