Put my eyes into a state of left. |
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Sooo, say you're really nervous about something (like, oh, I don't know, an upcoming interview.. nudge nudge...). What do you do to calm your nerves?? I need ideas, people! |
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Put my eyes into a state of left. |
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I dispassionately observe my nervous mind, knowing and accepting the nervousness as completely as I can until it passes, then next time it arises rinse and repeat. Alternately, look around for something that needs done. Do it. Look for something else. |
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Okay! I think I get what you mean Taosaur. I'll have to somehow merge that with Seis's suggestion. |
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Whenever i am in a nervous situation i tend to just reaffirm that everything will be okay, because 9 times out of 10 they are. Self confidence in being able to handle the situation will always help nerves. |
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You know that period of time where you're just waiting to do what you have to do and worrying about fucking up and you have all them butterflies in your stomach and all that? Just meditate instead. |
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i don't get so nervous and i hide it if i am, but i suppose you could try thinking about your whole life in general, the planet in general, the Universe etc. Basically try and make your current situation seem tiny and insignificant, so it's not so important in the long run( i know it is but i mean try to think like it isn't serious so you relax more). |
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Yea, think about the fact that there are stars 1,000,000,000,000,000,000 times the size of the earth, and 1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000 if those stars could fit in the Milky Way galaxy, so your problems are just peanuts to the universe... |
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Well as stupid as this sounds, try rehearsing the conversation in front of a mirror or atleast replay the potential questions in your head and answer them. |
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The best way I can put it is that you should put some effort into not seeming nervous. Be attentive to how you are acting, but don't obsess over it. Make sure you are looking the person(s) in the eye, and that you're not fidgeting. Treat them as if you were talking to a friend (albeit, maybe, a friend who warrants respect), or family member. I've actually had supervisors come to me in complete surprise that I didn't seem the least bit nervous - after being the center of attention at their conference table, interviewing for a job that was above and beyond anything I'd ever done - when, in reality, I was freaking out the whole time, internally. Haha. |
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The person who is interviewing you probably expects you to be nervous. So I am sure that it won't be that bad if you seem jittery or anxious. |
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I have two methods. One is genuflection. Its a weird habit I've picked up. Crossing myself changes my frame of mind and makes me feel protected for whats ahead. |
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meditate |
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Being nervous is not a bad thing. It something that happens at the same time of feeling fear and desperation. Feeling nervous is only your body releasing adrenaline to help you. You don't have to fight your nervosism, you have to fight what makes you nervous. Whenever I'm up for something to the size of public speaking or etc, I actually like to feel nervous - it shows my body and mind both know I will be going through an important situation and both will do the best they can. |
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Thanks guyzszsz. Hey Kromoh you make a really good point there. |
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Yeah, I was gonna say checking yourself out in the mirror can help. |
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I ridicule myself for being nervous and belittle my reason for nervousness as irrational... seems to work for me. Also works with fears. I managed to kill a spider all on my own today. |
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