Thread: ~ * Ask me about Picking Up Women * ~

My problem is that I have a deep-seated fear of rejection. I think that if one rejects me, they all will and that there's something wrong with me. This fear kept me from pursuing anyone and now I'm paying the price for the lack of emotional depth in my life that I would otherwise have with a woman.

So, my question is, how do I get over this mentality? Is it true that some people are just not meant to date?

Originally Posted by Jorge

The information I contain isn't for learning to pick up a women to have sex and then leave.

Is the info you contain for learning to pick up a women to have sex with whenever I want starting from night 1?

If not, this is not the thread for me.

Maybe I'll find one that fits soon.

How can you tell if a girl likes you? I think this girl likes me, but I'd feel uncomfortable asking her out without knowing for sure.

How do I pick up a girl when I'm there with another and have to take her home?

That came out wrong. She's my best friend, not a date

Originally Posted by Kushna Mufeed

Is the info you contain for learning to pick up a women to have sex with whenever I want starting from night 1?

If not, this is not the thread for me.

Maybe I'll find one that fits soon.

With the knowledge I'm sharing with you..yes. It can be used to pick-up girls like that. I'm sure you mean your at the club/bar, party and you want to spit some of your game and at the end of the night (w/o her being drunk) want her to want to ' bump uglies ' with you, then yes. This information will satisfy your desire.

Originally Posted by mini0991

My problem is that I have a deep-seated fear of rejection. I think that if one rejects me, they all will and that there's something wrong with me. This fear kept me from pursuing anyone and now I'm paying the price for the lack of emotional depth in my life that I would otherwise have with a woman.

So, my question is, how do I get over this mentality? Is it true that some people are just not meant to date?

NO! Your last question is 100% completely fasle! Any Internal Fear you have can be distinguished as water thrown over fire, that I can gurantee. It is, however up to you to do what I advise you to to get rid of you Approach Anxiety.

Do you think your willing to overcome your Fear of Approaching? Are you ready to actually go and approach a women regardless of how she looks, makes you feel? Are you ready to improve yourself and become who you truly want to be? <---Before you answer this, know in your own head that you are willing to change.

Originally Posted by suttsman

How can you tell if a girl likes you? I think this girl likes me, but I'd feel uncomfortable asking her out without knowing for sure.

Ok, this is quite easy actually. You might not like the answer though. Also, whatever you do DON'T ask her if she likes you. That will drive her away as quick as you can ask her that.There's 2 positions a girl can put you in...

The Friend Zone..and..The Possible Relationship Position

Obviously you do NOT want to be in the friend zone. The good news is that if you are, it can be changed but will take some time.

Let me ask you a question when you guys talk do these things happen?

• Does she Lead the Conversation?
• Does she talk to you about her ex-bf?
• Does she say "your such a good friend"
• Does she talk to you about her problems?

If she does, I am sorry but you are in The Friend Zone, once she classifies you as a friend. It will be awkward and weird when you try to game her. Not only will it break the friendship, but she will feel awkward whenever she's around you. So my friend..are you in the friend zone? If you are, then No she doesn't like you.

i tried to pick up a woman once... she was too heavy.

How can you tell if a girl likes you? I think this girl likes me, but I'd feel uncomfortable asking her out without knowing for sure.

this is pretty easy.
you: i like you.
her: I like you too.
or
her: oh thanks (doesn't like you)

It's pretty simple. Better to say "i like you" after you've just told her something she really likes and she's genuinely happy. you can generally feel this in your gut.

Is there a correlation between bust size and intelligence?

OK teach me before tomorrow night.

Originally Posted by ranma187

i tried to pick up a woman once... she was too heavy.



this is pretty easy.
you: i like you.
her: I like you too.
or
her: oh thanks (doesn't like you)

It's pretty simple. Better to say "i like you" after you've just told her something she really likes and she's genuinely happy. you can generally feel this in your gut.

I wouldn't recommend this advice, not only will it not work in your favor it will cause an awkward moment between both of you and it will be something you both remember.

Although from experience this is not good to do, you will not get her to like you in the end either. If she say's yes than great, but do you really want to do that risk?

Originally Posted by Jorge

Although from experience this is not good to do, you will not get her to like you in the end either. If she say's yes than great, but do you really want to do that risk?

Actually, that's worked a couple times. i mean how else is she gonna know? I say don't be a pussy and take risks.

Originally Posted by Kushna Mufeed

OK teach me before tomorrow night.

I hope your not being serious...I can give you some tools/techniques to try if your going out tomorrow night. It is impossible to learn to pick-up in 1 day. It's obvious.

Originally Posted by ranma187

Actually, that's worked a couple times. i mean how else is she gonna know? I say don't be a pussy and take risks.

It's worked couple time's? That's great! Now let's see what can work more than a couple times for this guy, I want to offer him only quality proven advice that works more than a couple times.



Taking risk is great, taking a risk when you don't need to, and taking the risk will hurt your chances at achieving your goal..then it's a stupid one to take.


Why ask her if she likes you when you can find out from her actions? Once you find out from her actions if she likes you or not, you progress between you to and turn it into an actual relationship or whatever you desire?


If on the other hand you ask her "do you like me?" and she says "No." then basically you hurt your chances than if you wouldn't have asked her. Don't take unnecessary risk that will only hurt your chances at getting the girl.

Well, then do what you can for me in one day

I never said "ask her if she likes you". i said "tell her you like her and pay attention to the response she's given you" and the way you handle the response will determine the outcome.

I know how to approach a girl I like and everything and even ask her out...

But, I'm not really sure what to do after I ask her out. What do I do?

Originally Posted by Kushna Mufeed

Well, then do what you can for me in one day

I can do nothing for you, it's up to you to do it yourself. If you mean what advice and tools I can provide you then yes, I can give you some to go and use.

I will PM you.

Aight, awesome.

I've been saturating myself in this kind of knowledge for the past day.

Originally Posted by ninja9578

How do I pick up a girl when I'm there with another and have to take her home?

That came out wrong. She's my best friend, not a date

Ok, your questions was major confusing --->

So your asking, How can you pick up a girl, when another girl is present and you have to take one of the girls home?


Ok, first thing you gotta do is make sure her friend is friends with you. Because once you start gaming, or she will definatly be a cockblock. When making friends with her friends, and you give them a "Fun" vibe they will talk good about you most times, when your not around. So that's step 1.

Actually before I got any furthur, I just re-read the part where you say "She's my best friend, not a date" she's your best friend you want to spit game at? If so, my friend you are in a bad spot. If she's your best friend then she already classifies you as a friend and not a possible partner. Let me know me know more about your "Friend Relationship"

What if I can already pick up woman? Do I need your help?

Originally Posted by CoLd BlooDed

What if I can already pick up woman? Do I need your help?

Nope, but you can post advice here and help other guys out.


Also, if your just here bullshitting about nothing, then don't come here. This is a serious thread meant for serious people who want some help. Don't post if your not going to try and contribute or ask a question. It floods my thread and is really annoying.

Originally Posted by Jorge

I believe any man can pick-up women, looks do not matter as much as someone thinks. It's only about 10% on your game, that I can gurantee you.

Disagree...

Carry on.

Originally Posted by Siиdяed

Wat.

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Originally Posted by Adam

Disagree...

Carry on.

I wish you would have brought more in your post. Why is it that you disagree? Do you know from experience? Let me post an Article a close friend of mine has written. Read it and let me know your thoughts.



Here's the Article:

Not Good Looking? Who Cares!


by The Player

Before we begin let me start off with a brief analogy...



By now I’m sure that you must have read about body language on this site, so you should know that even though most people spend a large majority of their lives talking... roughly 90% of the communication done between two people is actually non-verbal. With that said I can now move on to the main subject at hand, because in theory the game of dating and seduction as a whole works in a very similar fashion.



Allow me to explain :



Even though the modern world that we live in may place a huge emphasis on the way people look... in actuality your looks can only be given credit for about 10% of your ability to pick up women.



If that is the case, then what makes up the other 90%? Read on...



In reality, the only thing that good looks can do for a man is get visual attention from women... meaning that if you look like a male model women will most likely notice you faster than other men, which might seem like a good thing, but that is not always the case.

Throughout the history of human beings the males have been granted the role of the predator, and in turn females would take on the role of the prey. This is why women are naturally inclined to sit back and let the men come to them and express their interest, then make the decision to pursue a relationship or not. I’m sure you are familiar with this concept, so with that in mind why would the way you look mean much at all? It’s not like you will have women approaching you no matter how good you look, because that is the MAN’S role.

Master seducers know this, and that is why they do not waste their time worrying about if they look perfect, because that is the WOMAN’S role. Plus, a real player knows that he has the ability and skill to get any woman that he wants... all he needs to do is approach them and begin flirting. It does not matter if the girl is attracted to him at first sight or not, because he knows that he will get her regardless once the conversation ensues.

There are millions of men out there, right now, that are constantly worrying about how they look... and I’d be willing to bet that over half of them have no REAL skill when it comes to attracting and picking up women. They think that if they look their best the women will simply come running... but it never happens.

However, there are a select few who have taken the time to learn what really matters in the dating game, and even though they may still groom themselves properly... they understand that looks just get you to the door, while the rest is what gets you through it.

I am one of those men (but I have’nt always been), and I have dedicated my life to teaching guys just like you what I’ve learned through years of experience. If there was a "Seduction 101" course taught in college, I would most likely be a professor at one. However, the world is not like that and probably never will be... and up until now it has been up to guys to learn how to deal with women themselves, through trial and error.

Originally Posted by Jorge

If there was a "Seduction 101" course taught in college, I would most likely be a professor at one.

I totally know how he feels.