dream-gasms

**UcfGirl** · 08-02-2011 06:05 PM

So I'm new to the site but I've always wanted to discuss my dreams publically. My friends just wouldn't understand. I've been lucid dreaming since I was little, lucky I guess. Had many LD experiences on my own but there's one thing I can't figure out....

One of my favorite things to do while LDing is have sex, I'll admit it as a girl in college. I've had lesbian dreams, dreams where I have a penis, normal sex dreams etc. But for some reason, every time I start having sex while LDing, I can feel the dream start fading away as I'm waking up. I'm guessing this is because I get excited. So I have to hurry up to finish before the dream is gone. I start peaking and within 5 seconds I wake up to a face-flushing, body-pulsing orgasm. Yup, no lies. The female equivalent to a guy's wet dream except I can induce them. And this happens probably once a week as long as I have time to sleep in. And by the way, my dream orgasms are way more intense than orgasms from actual sex. Does anyone else experience this? It's awesome but I can't tell this to ANYONE in real life teehee

Sometimes my subconscious tries to trick me into thinking that I'm not dreaming and I shouldn't be having sex in public and all my DC are staring at me. I fall for it occasionally, very frustrating. Once I wanted to so bad but my mom kept appearing. I was lucid so I'd try to make her go away but she kept coming back hahaa. Thoughts? Questions?

**hpnfreak** · 08-02-2011 06:10 PM

post twice?

**MatthewOlson** · 08-02-2011 06:24 PM

This sounded like me when I started LDing in high school,... except I never got further than 1st or 2nd base before I woke up. ... It is not uncommon to feel yourself slipping back to waking during lucidity. Its a shame not being able to take your time, isn't it? =(

The part about your subconscious tricking you could mean that you are in some small way (subconsciously) ashamed about it.
The idea of sex itself isn't shameful at all, but as you mentioned, you can't tell your real life friends because they wouldn't understand, and they would perhaps think of you in some weird way that would make you ultimately uncomfortable. When you think about it, isn't this somewhat of a fear-based reaction? Perhaps that part of you has a tendency of showing up in your dreaming.

I've known a person or two that did dream sharing and often had sex while sharing their dream with each other. I'd say that would be your next step up (for at least in that case, you are actually having sex with another waking-persons consciousness (or spirit,... whichever your version is). ... Who knows? Perhaps the ideal man for you is someone who can do just that! ^_^

**UcfGirl** · 08-02-2011 06:32 PM

hmm interesting...the fear factor does make sense because last year I never told anyone about these dreams, but this year I told two girlfriends and one guy I was talking to who actually said it turned him on that I could do that. Since I told him, the awkward DCs staring at me stopped appearing as often.

About the dream sharing, it is actually possible? That sounds like something out of inception. You mean like two people can be having the same dream at the same time? You have to tell me more.

And lastly I wish I could find a guy who was as interested in the workings of human mind as I am, but unfortunately I'm limited to UCF fraternity boys for now who aren't exactly intellectually stimulating lol