Thread: Sex in LDs

So I had a lucid dream that ended up in a bunch of places and the whole time my ex girlfriend that I never had sex with was by my side. I experimented with control over gravity and all that and never once thought of having sex with her...

Originally Posted by kel

OMG sex in my LD's is 1000 times better than sex in reality.. it feels sooo0ooooooo good in dreams for me,,, much better than in reality..

I almost want to agree ten times over. Mainly because I can get exactly what i want, exactly how i want it, each and every time and just pretend that it's a surprise.

My LD sex-capade wasn't really all that crazy. But the change of scenery made it ...chaotic.

I was in a car leaning over to get my purse when i noticed that my heel was caught in the passanger seatbelt. Suddenly, a boy that I had been crushing on at the time materializes underneath me, so that i'm perfectly positioned in an "over the knee" type of ordeal. My skirt follows the theme and shrinks and out of nowhere i'm wearing a thong and my ass is pretty much in his face.
I realize i'm dreaming and make him take advantage of the situation.

It feels so real, i groan. but outside, the scenery goes beserk.

The settings change from the flames of hell to a rose park to a carnival to a church cemetery to outer space to Antartica and back again.

And we don't even notice.

Eventually we leave the car, but it happens the way a scene in a movie changes, with a different frame different angle.

Suddenly I'm riding him under the bleachers and there are wild red roses growing near.

I'm on my knees in the dirt and gripping the earth for leverage or dramatic effect, i'm not sure.

I lose control of the LD at the same time that I think i'm going to come.


Gah, what a crap ending to a great LD.

Who'da thunk it'd have it's shortcomings.

Hey whoa, I'm in Berkeley also. Small world, yeah?

For me, it's much more intense than in real life. The emotion (it's someone I love deaply), the sensations...it's more than real...it's real plus something else I can't explain. When I wake up...I truly feel that we met in our dreams and expressed what can't be expressed in waking life....physically and emotionally...they make me miss him more, but cherish the time we had.

I attempted a WILD once and while closing my eyes and focusing on my breathing i felt a thud on my bed and a girl from school was lying next to me. This was so shocking i didn't become lucid. But i did have sex , i was really excited and surprised i didn't wake up for a while

Originally Posted by yelizaveta

This is mentioned rather furtively in a lot of posts i've seen, and I can't find a topic for it...but I'm really curious. for some reason i either don't have sex in my regular dreams, or dont remember the dreams involving sex. It's strange...or is that normal? Either way, I'm not lucid yet and when I am i really don't think sex will be the first (or even fifth...) thing I'll try. But i have heard people say some interesting things about it, and I want to know...what is sex in a lucid like for you? Does it mirror the feeling of real sex (assuming you've had it) accurately? What's the craziest, most creative thing that's happened to you in LD sex?

Ok,getting a bit personal here*lmao* but alright.
Ive never had sex with another person in a Lucid Dream,but Ive def had it with myself.
It feels more like a mind thing at first,alot of excitement,then I get this thought that I should touch myself......then the orgazm wakes me up*L* and I keep thinking I should wake up with my hand ,you know...down there,but I never do.
Feeling still lingers for awhile after I wake up:-)

Well, I've never had sex in real life, but I have had it about four times (at least!) in dreams. It feels very nice, unlike anything I've ever experienced before, in a way oddly different from masturbation. It's pretty awesome.

Lucid dream sex is amazing and can be as good or better as real life from the feel of her warm skin to her wet..... well you get the idea but i kinda feel like its somewhat of a waste of time when i could be exploring or looking for the meaning of life. As fare as strange things goes i have fallen thrue the ground and had the girl disappear while having sex (can be very angering)

well being
male

being 17
being hormone crazed

i keep getting distracted in my lucid dreams!!

as soon as i know im dreaming im on the hunt!!!!!
faaark i just want to fly
why is it always sex

i shall learn some self control!


now i sound like a sex craved maniac...

IM NOT!
just admitting what happens to a lot of people lol

I have been reading Stephen Laberge's book Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming and he has a section in the beginning about the affects of sex in dreams on the "real" world. During sex in dreams, both male and female experience real world reactions similar to the coordination of REM in the dream and the real world. Both will have a higher rate of breathing, but contrary to what one would expect, your heart rate will not increase. Men will experience an erection, and women will experience a flexing of sorts of vaginal muscles. They did an experiment with a woman where they had something that measured the amount of vaginal pulse amplitude (wtf?). She signaled with her eyes while she was having an orgasm and this is when her breating rate and vaginal pulse amplitude were at their highest. Apparently, sex in a lucid dream can have some very real affects.

Originally Posted by CiD

I have been reading Stephen Laberge's book Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming and he has a section in the beginning about the affects of sex in dreams on the "real" world. During sex in dreams, both male and female experience real world reactions similar to the coordination of REM in the dream and the real world. Both will have a higher rate of breathing, but contrary to what one would expect, your heart rate will not increase. Men will experience an erection, and women will experience a flexing of sorts of vaginal muscles. They did an experiment with a woman where they had something that measured the amount of vaginal pulse amplitude (wtf?). She signaled with her eyes while she was having an orgasm and this is when her breating rate and vaginal pulse amplitude were at their highest. Apparently, sex in a lucid dream can have some very real affects.

The brain is truely amazing.The closest to understanding it is by our dreams, the dream world too is a mystic place. As quoted by a DC, "Dreamness is mysticness."

A lot of people have said why have LD sex when you can have RL sex.
This is true but what if it is someone who doesn't exist?
Or Even a non-Human?
Or a Videogame Character?
YAY BANANA

Originally Posted by painseeker

A lot of people have said why have LD sex when you can have RL sex.
This is true but what if it is someone who doesn't exist?
Or Even a non-Human?
Or a Videogame Character?
YAY BANANA

Very true, some people can act out things they are afraid to try in reality, in their dreams...to me thats the largest advantage dreaming has, no consequences.

I personally would have a love affair with a cute guy, and girl at the same time , i could do that IRL but, its tough finding 2 bi's lol

Well I've actually had a whole lot of sex LDs...
Examples:
1) Girl from school with really nice breasts: Making out, grabbing her breasts, doggy style, done.
2) Some random girl I saw in the street in RL but in the dream she bumped into me and then we had sex in the middle of the street.
3) Running track with a girl that had an extremely nice figure and very pretty face... The girl trips and falls so I lend my hand to her. This dream lasted a bit longer but it resulted in sex in the school hallways.
Yeah these dreams are actually commonplace, you just need to remember them.

well i have had LD sex a few times, i like more to fly and destroy things or you know do all the stuff i cant do in real life. But i have never had sex IRL but LD sex is amazing, it feels so great and so real, although i dont know what real life sex feels like my mind has created its own feelings, i hope im not let down too much when i do it IRL though. The only side effect that i hate is waking up right at orgasm cause then you gotta go clean yourself up, ugh.

Oh, hmm wierd experiences, lets see i screwed in a shower of blood, that was extremely erotic and dang it felt so good. I was in a random house and realized i was dreaming after making out with this really hot girl. Once i realized i was dreaming i led her into the shower and made it pour out blood instead of water, i know kinda strange to some, but i have drank blood and i love how it feels against the skin and the taste. i was lost in sex and blood lust and it was freaking amazing.

Originally Posted by M0rp8ix

well i have had LD sex a few times, i like more to fly and destroy things or you know do all the stuff i cant do in real life. But i have never had sex IRL but LD sex is amazing, it feels so great and so real, although i dont know what real life sex feels like my mind has created its own feelings, i hope im not let down too much when i do it IRL though. The only side effect that i hate is waking up right at orgasm cause then you gotta go clean yourself up, ugh.

Oh, hmm wierd experiences, lets see i screwed in a shower of blood, that was extremely erotic and dang it felt so good. I was in a random house and realized i was dreaming after making out with this really hot girl. Once i realized i was dreaming i led her into the shower and made it pour out blood instead of water, i know kinda strange to some, but i have drank blood and i love how it feels against the skin and the taste. i was lost in sex and blood lust and it was freaking amazing.

For the record, I am officially freaked out.

Originally Posted by unseen wombat

For the record, I am officially freaked out.

aww freaked out? but why evil snicker I would totally screw in a shower of blood IRL hehe blood is so erotic and tasteful. I love blood, always have, it is just blissful to me hehe, I would love to be an anime character, they always get all the good blood scenes lol

shower in blood? Thats very disturbing... I dont know how else to say it LOL... Anyways I so want this girl I know in RL BUT Im having a dryspell right now. But I only want to get with her because I cant in RL. But there is this one girl thats really georgous and sweet to no end... which I know would be amazing.

Originally Posted by lonestarx

shower in blood? Thats very disturbing... I dont know how else to say it LOL... Anyways I so want this girl I know in RL BUT Im having a dryspell right now. But I only want to get with her because I cant in RL. But there is this one girl thats really georgous and sweet to no end... which I know would be amazing.

/sigh well I guess its not worse than masturbating.

Originally Posted by M0rp8ix

well i have had LD sex a few times, i like more to fly and destroy things or you know do all the stuff i cant do in real life. But i have never had sex IRL but LD sex is amazing, it feels so great and so real, although i dont know what real life sex feels like my mind has created its own feelings, i hope im not let down too much when i do it IRL though. The only side effect that i hate is waking up right at orgasm cause then you gotta go clean yourself up, ugh.

Oh, hmm wierd experiences, lets see i screwed in a shower of blood, that was extremely erotic and dang it felt so good. I was in a random house and realized i was dreaming after making out with this really hot girl. Once i realized i was dreaming i led her into the shower and made it pour out blood instead of water, i know kinda strange to some, but i have drank blood and i love how it feels against the skin and the taste. i was lost in sex and blood lust and it was freaking amazing.

That sounds freakin awesome!

I'm so trying that when I learn to LD

Originally Posted by PeteB

That sounds freakin awesome!

I'm so trying that when I learn to LD

finally someone who doesnt think i am just a freak.

Originally Posted by M0rp8ix

well i have had LD sex a few times, i like more to fly and destroy things or you know do all the stuff i cant do in real life. But i have never had sex IRL but LD sex is amazing, it feels so great and so real, although i dont know what real life sex feels like my mind has created its own feelings, i hope im not let down too much when i do it IRL though. The only side effect that i hate is waking up right at orgasm cause then you gotta go clean yourself up, ugh.

Oh, hmm wierd experiences, lets see i screwed in a shower of blood, that was extremely erotic and dang it felt so good. I was in a random house and realized i was dreaming after making out with this really hot girl. Once i realized i was dreaming i led her into the shower and made it pour out blood instead of water, i know kinda strange to some, but i have drank blood and i love how it feels against the skin and the taste. i was lost in sex and blood lust and it was freaking amazing.

Sounds like something I might do under the right conditions...like in a vampire dream. I might have to try that, get myself a vampire lover... They're so dark and sinister, but irresistably sensual. Now I just have to become lucid and stay lucid long enough to advance beyond the initial scene...

I've had sex in a non-lucid dream before. I was an Egyptian priestess in one of the inner chambers of a temple, the torch-flame throwing sultry, golden light upon the stone of the walls and the floor. I was alone, but then I became aware of another presence--Anubis. I heard his voice as his ghostly form materialized, and we lied down together. I saw him and his body, and I felt the sensations, but his face, not a dog's as in the usual depiction, was covered in some sort of hood, the reason being that he was a god and I was mortal, even if I was a priestess.

Originally Posted by M0rp8ix

well i have had LD sex a few times, i like more to fly and destroy things or you know do all the stuff i cant do in real life. But i have never had sex IRL but LD sex is amazing, it feels so great and so real, although i dont know what real life sex feels like my mind has created its own feelings, i hope im not let down too much when i do it IRL though. The only side effect that i hate is waking up right at orgasm cause then you gotta go clean yourself up, ugh.

Oh, hmm wierd experiences, lets see i screwed in a shower of blood, that was extremely erotic and dang it felt so good. I was in a random house and realized i was dreaming after making out with this really hot girl. Once i realized i was dreaming i led her into the shower and made it pour out blood instead of water, i know kinda strange to some, but i have drank blood and i love how it feels against the skin and the taste. i was lost in sex and blood lust and it was freaking amazing.

You scare me! I need to hide my neck from you!

Originally Posted by Semper Erato

Sounds like something I might do under the right conditions...like in a vampire dream. I might have to try that, get myself a vampire lover... They're so dark and sinister, but irresistably sensual. Now I just have to become lucid and stay lucid long enough to advance beyond the initial scene...

I've had sex in a non-lucid dream before. I was an Egyptian priestess in one of the inner chambers of a temple, the torch-flame throwing sultry, golden light upon the stone of the walls and the floor. I was alone, but then I became aware of another presence--Anubis. I heard his voice as his ghostly form materialized, and we lied down together. I saw him and his body, and I felt the sensations, but his face, not a dog's as in the usual depiction, was covered in some sort of hood, the reason being that he was a god and I was mortal, even if I was a priestess.

That sounds really interesting, you definatly seem to have a dark side Thats got to be the best thing about LD's, being able to explore it, where as real life its a lot harder to