Originally Posted by DarthLucidity
Your wife must realize that during lucidity, she is in full control of her dreams.
She can fly away if she wants, visit anywhere she wants, she can get away from this character, she can even confront the character in the dream, saying things like "Leave me alone." or "You're not real!"; I would probably suggest shouting at the character "You're not real! You can't scare me any longer, I am in control of you!" or something of those sorts.
I hope all goes well, and I'm sorry for not being very much help; I've never had a lucid nightmare before.
A word of caution: Just because the dream character is not real does not mean that the fear is not real. And thus it may take a while for this to work. When I confronted my father in my dream telling him he is just a figment of my imagination, he denied it and I felt I did not win that argument, in part because he has always been someone in waking life against whom I did not win arguments, and thus I did not expect to win deep down because of expectations based on waking experience, and even though I knew that he was just a DC in my dream, but I was still intimidated, and this was during a time in my life when me and my dad got along much better than at any other time of my life, and thus I imagine that this same dream would have been much scariest for me in a crisis - it was actually kind of funny for me at that time, and I self analyzed it with a smile realizing why I had not convinced him. Self analysis is crucial I think to overcoming issues: one needs to examine oneself, understands why one reacts the way one does, work on self improvement, knowing that it may require small steps and patience. It may be that next time she will still be scared but no longer as scared of the nightmare, and that would already be an improvement.
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