religion can change peoples perspectives of each other
imagine if the christian looks at the atheist and thinks "hellbound". or if the atheist looks at the christian and thinks "sheep". how can these two remain in a romantic relationship without their perspectives of each other getting in the way? they both see each other as ignorant and blind. do you want a lover who sees you as ignorant or blind?
but what is in the way of their relationship is not the religion. but their judgmental egos. ego is in the way because it tells you "I am absolutely right".
love is unconditional. love is not just two people dating to see if they are good mates. that is a human relationship that evolved out of our need to reproduce. not out of our need to love. friendship is the relationship that evolved out of our need to love for loves sake. but love is not confined or defined by human relationships.
people who don't understand what unconditional love is think its all flowerly and soft and weak, and passive. but unconditional love is a great power, like nature evolving. unconditional love is not about making you happy or satisfying your desires. on the contrary - its about destroying your ego.
even if you do not believe in unconditional love, or do not feel you have it in your life, you can do nothing to escape it. it is already all around you whether or not you choose to recognize it. even the atheist and the christian that are in love, are still in a relationship of unconditional love. even if they fight, even if they argue, even if they went their separate ways. . . its still a relationship that came to be because of unconditional love. how?
through unconditional love, they have walked into a relationship where everything their ego stands for will be challenged and shaken. that is the goal of such love, to challenge and then destroy your ego so you can be free of it. this makes for 'less than perfect relationships'. relationships that hurt us. it is the direct opposite of what we say romantic love should be, something that always makes us happy.
we all have some ego issue to work over. and we all have attracted someone into our life who can challenge those ego illusions. don't believe me? this person is in your life right now! mother, father, sister, brother, friend, boy friend, girl friend, husband, wife, children, ect.
look what happens when people deny unconditional love to work in their lives. they become afraid of all that is different from them. and what do you get? anti-gays. anti-jews. anti-christians. anti-muslims. anti-atheists, anti, anti, anti anti anti, you get everything bad.
but even the people who are afraid to challenge their egos, can't escape the nature of unconditional love. they are surrounded with people that think and breathe the same. walking talking mirrors. and every time one of these anti people do something wrong in life, its an opportunity for the self to realize "that must mean, I am wrong too"
so love every relationship, as fucked up as it is, that you walk into. even if it doesn't work out. its okay. it was all for the better. and it was all for you.
however
when we want to share our life with someone, its the sharing part that becomes the factor of whom we choose. if someone wants to share a spiritual life with another, do you think they want to marry a materialistic person?? or do you think a materialistic person wants to marry someone who wants to pray chant and meditate 24/7?? relationships that share last. relationships that don't share, go their separate ways. (even if they love each other)
so its not like asking if different races can marry. religion and spirituality do play a factor in what people want to 'share' in life.
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