Ah, hello there.
Nice ideas and reasoning. So what you're saying is that you think the key to DILD is to retrospectively relive a recent dream experience, with a rational frame of mind, in the hope that repeatedly doing so will condition the brain in some way to be overly more aware of what is going on.
Could prove beneficial I suppose. Just remember, that it may not be your fault that you cannot instinctively realise the bizarre elements in your dream. Neurological research has definitely shown a deactivation of certain brain regions during dreaming, which may contribute to the acceptance of the bizarre natures of dreams. I have had many missed experiences for lucidity; there was one time when I'd set myself the task of trying to fly in a lucid dream, and in one non-lucid dream leading up to that, I decided to try and get some practise in with varying degrees of success, and not even realising for a second that if I was hovering above the ground then this had to be a dream.
Anyway, good luck with your technique, and I would be eager to hear of your progress.