Well, kelisi, a few of us meet on the Moon. We have built some dreamscapes there: A Biodome and a Dark Tower, a Temple in the City of Nowhere in the Land of Nod, and Dark Castle... I would suggest focusing on the Biodome, though. We have a description of it in the thread in my signature.

I agree about having a shared dream partner of the opposite gender, regardless of sexual orientation. I think it's about ying-yang energy, like north and south magnets.

I have to look up some of the phrases you used such as inverse square law, and quantum entanglement, though I am reading "Entangled Minds," albeit slowly.

Pretty amazing that you have had shared dreams with hundreds of people! I have with maybe a dozen or so (not including people from other dimensions.)

I do not believe that you can kill someone's phyiscal body from dreams, but you can definitely induce nightmares.