Although KingVincent is right that it’s usually best to know a fair amount about the dreamer in order to provide an accurate interpretation, there’s still the possibility of piecing together a few plausible ideas as based on dream motifs that have a basic similar meaning for many dreamers.
With this specific dream, you’re mostly wondering about the symbolism of the plane and the airport.
Perhaps the first step though is to look at the idea of a “subjective” vs. an “objective” interpretation.
As analyst Mary Ann Mattoon writes in “Jung and the Human Psyche”:
“A subjective interpretation is indicated, generally, if the dream figure depicts someone (or something) not highly significant to the dreamer in waking life – a remote relative, a long-lost acquaintance, a celebrity, a historical figure or a person unknown to the dreamer, or imaginary.
Used in relation to dreams, ‘subjective’ does not carry the connotations of ‘insubstantial’ or ‘illusory’. Rather, this treatment calls attention to qualities and attitudes that the dreamer shares with the dream figure”
The other general approach to your dream would be “objective” which is described as follows:
“But what if you dream about your spouse, who (unlike Cousin John) is part of your daily life? The dream interpretation may give you some insight regarding the spouse or the feeling situation between the two of you. Such an interpretation would be an ‘objective’ one. ‘Objective’ in this situation does not mean ‘unbiased’. It means, rather, that the dream provides a view, from the dreamer’s unconscious, of the ‘object’ – a person, animal, place or thing, and the dreamer’s relationship to that object”
Ms. Mattoon also brings up another helpful method of determining whether a dream is subjective or objective.
If the person’s image in the dream is an exact photographic likeness and not “different” from the outer person in some way, then it’s possible the dream could more likely be somehow commenting on the actual person
But if his image was “different” in some way, then the image of the person is more likely representing some aspect of the dreamer’s own make-up as a person,
Analyst Dr. Marie-Louise von Franz (who was a decades-long collaborator of the respected psychiatrist Dr. Carl Jung) also touches on the question of how to distinguish between mostly a subjective vs. an objective dream in the book “The Way of the Dream”.
An example is given of a man who dreams his wife is stealing his car and asking how do you determine if it’s referring to an outer problem in his marriage or a problem within himself. She writes:
“That is the most ticklish problem of all. The dreamer will often be inclined to think ‘There, you see, that’s exactly what she is doing. She is forever taking away my ways of moving about. She is always interfering’…
To interpret these dreams correctly, one has to know the whole marital situation and have an idea of the wife’s objective behaviour. Then one can evaluate whether it is a projection or whether it refers to the wife. Sometimes it refers to both…
Generally, I would say that about eighty-five percent of the dream motifs are subjective, and therefore I recommend interpreting most dreams subjectively. One should always ask ‘What is it in me that does that’ instead of taking the dream as a warning against other people.”
In this case, it looks like you believe that the image of the guy in your dreams mostly represents the outer guy himself but now you have a few tools to help decide if this is really the case.
As to the symbolism of the plane, generally speaking, dreams use a complex language of metaphor and analogy to express what they’re trying to get across to the dreamer.
Often, there is a long string of connections with a given analogy.
In this case, planes fly “high up in the blue sky” and “in the air”. The colour blue, air and the sky are usually connected with the ideas of “mind”, “spirit”, thinking and the intellect in world symbolism which constantly shows up in dreams as well.
In your dream, there’s tension on the plane and the man is irritated and annoyed by your presence.
Since a man in the dreams of a woman can often symbolize the quality and makeup of her connection with aspects of logic, thinking and the decision-making resulting from using these tools, it depends on your conscious way of using thinking to help determine whether his image is subjective or not.
For example, if your job is one of a technical, scientific, mathematical or similar nature, you would likely be in sync with this inner man because you would likely be competently and efficiently using thinking and logic in day-to-day decision making.
If so, an “inner man” would not be “irritated with you” for not paying enough attention to reflection and deciding on, for example, your own personal course of action by examining the actual evidence instead of, for instance, depending on general current opinions and beliefs etc. in society at large.
This would therefore point to some kind of objective nature of the guy in the dream although it probably wouldn’t show the source of his irritation or rejection of you in outer life.
On the other hand, if your usual everyday nature is not conditioned by a strong attachment to using logic and thinking to direct your activities, then the man within might indeed be “irritated” that you’re ignoring this part of yourself too much which also includes such attributes as, for example, self-sufficiency, focus and assertiveness.
Therefore the idea would be that you’re “separated” and “apart” from this inner aspect of yourself which usually leads to “tension” and feeling “extremely awkward”.
On analogy, an airport is a place dealing essentially with smoothly organizing the getting of people to the “destinations” where they want to go.
From the subjective point of view, perhaps your dream is showing that you have to do more to somehow placate this inner figure by working at developing its potentials in yourself so that he can eventually become part of the “family” who are there to pick you up and who wouldn’t always be “on a different flight-path” than your own which would lead in the end away from “home” and who you really are.
Anyway as mentioned, without knowing anything much about you, this interpretation might not fit your personal circumstances very well but I hope these ideas weren’t too confusing and that they can be helpful in some way.
Please feel free to make any comments or to ask any questions that you may want to about this particular way of looking at this overall group of dreams.
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